this girl i work with and i have been flirting here and there for a few months.
nothing serious. just the typical back and forth. we like each other - it's obvious.
so i told her i'd teach her to drive and took her out at lunch a few times. about
a week ago she says thanks and looks at me with this lusty look in her eye. so
so for the last couple of weeks we've been going out for a drive, parking and
making out for about a half hour. i think this could go to the next step soon.
also this week she's been texting me , telling me she misses me and this and
that. flirting and shit.
oh yeah, she's married and so am i. My relationship is on the rocks and i'm not
too sure about hers.
so today she texts me and says that she wants us to go back to when we were
"solo amigos". she speaks mostly spanish - i speak mostly english but i can
get by. I know the basics in spanish.
So i call her. I was already having a bad day. And she says basically that she
just wants to be friends, that it;s better, that we need to stop before we go
to far. And I tell her no. I can't be friends, i dont want to be friends. That I want
to hang out with her.
we're supposed to talk about this on monday.
i really like this girl, I like being her friend, but I can't go back to being "just friends"
we're beyond that I told her we're "mas que amigos".
What's your advice on this. I'll take it from a PUA point of view or even some kind
of dating advice.
I need to decide what I want out of this but while I think on that I look forward to seeing
what you all have to say.