So I'm leaving the club at the same time as aquaintance redhead HB9, so we walk together. Laughing, joking, good rapport. I wasn't really bothing to game her, but she gave me the digits and told me to let her know next time I was going to this event. Couple weeks roll by and the event comes up again, I decide to go, and txt her a short FYI that I would be there (No-Flakes-style open loop or whatever its called). She flips out and sends me this long txt (3 pages with bullet points!!) about how I'm assuming she would care.
My main question is this-- how do I respond to this?? I understand I should play it off as the cool confident alpha male who is above any petty drama, but how do you expess that without getting sucked in nor totally defenestrating this chick? (remember I still have to float in the same social circle as this girl and we share a fair number of mutual acquaintances, and yes, if the situation were repaired I wouldn't be above banging her also lol )
An additional question might be this-- how did this happen?? Is she just being bitchy because I had better things to do than call her the last two weeks? Is she just testing? Did she just totally forget that she *asked* me to remind her about the event? (even so, doesn't alone explain all the attitude) Or could it be she was having a bad day and she's just taking it out of the first person who bothers to talk to her?
I'm pretty much anti-drama, so I hate to even give it this much attention, but I'd still like to learn how to better deal with this sort of thing in the future.