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    Angry how would a pro handle this...

    I posted a while back guys about a situation that I was in. Basically I always played it cool with women, I would typically not let my feelings get involved, and a few months ago I met someone who I clicked with... I farked up.. I let my guard down and allowed myself to have feelings for her knowing she was leaving about 4 months after we met... she was really into me but somehow kept herself from falling probably due to the fact that she knew she was leaving to move to the west coast but she just stayed in it I guess because she wanted to see shred it could go.
    I am still Hung up on her after 7 weeks and having dated a bunch of women and slept with 2 since.. I figured getting laid would help - but it didn't.
    Her parents didn't like me (especially her mom) because I am white and they are traditional asians. She told me she couldn't promise me anything when she moved because she "might meet someone better"... that hurt badly..
    Add to the fact her sexual partner number was pretty farkin high for someone who claimed to have a low sex drive even though 2 months before me she was hooking up with a married couple for fun.. I know I am a idiot please don't remind me of that.. I just don't know why she won't leave my head.. its like I want her back but I don't and I know that won't happen. We don't talk anymore and when I broke up with her it was an easy break up. She barely cried and she didn't really bother to contact me after we went our separate ways..
    It's like the whole time we were together she was never into me as much as the guy before me that which she admitted when I asked her... and that farking made me so jealous.. I didn't show it other than me walking away.
    I have dated and had sex since but I still can't shake it ...

    So I ask.... how does a pro handle this kind of heartbeat other than not being in this situation at all??
    The thing is she had a pretty face but is short with no ass and a lil on the chunky side... and the girl.I hooked up with recently was pretty but with a great body..
    I know this is a long confusing post but I ak trying to paint a perfectly clear and honest picture.
    Any advice is greatly appreciative..-big beech.

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    Default Re: how would a pro handle this...

    dude, first advice is usually "get out there and meet other women" and it all gets better. maybe since you actually LIKED this chick, she is staying with you. here is 2 suggestions

    1. keep plowing, meet more women, and you will end up liking one better

    2. take a week or 2 off. spend time with the guys, friends family etc. sometimes even pua's have feelings, take a quick rest and you will appreciate women more whne you get back into it.

    stop looking at women as "lays" and start looking for something deeper that you can learn from them. after all, they ARE people. you can like a 6 or 7 more than a 9 or 10. its about the connection sometimes. you can outdo yourself in looks, personality, likeability etc... and still be hung up on a girl. its called FEELINGS

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    Default Re: how would a pro handle this...

    One thing you should know that might make the feelings more manageable...

    1. "might meet someone better"... that hurt badly.. - This is BS, she is trying to hurt you here to make herself feel better.
    2. Asians are less facially expressive than Westerners. It was probably a little harder to read how much feeling she actually experienced when you broke up. She could have really cared, but was just better at hiding it!
    3.Don't feel stupid because any experience is good experience. It looks like you've made some of your own realizations which is awesome. I think you're on the right track.
    4. Realize that these feelings will go away the minute you connect with someone new, or enough time passes... it is inevitable. Think this way and you will be back to your old self in no time.

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: how would a pro handle this...

    Yea man that comment hurt really Fuckin bad...
    So bad I have actually made no effort to contact her though i still care about her.
    Why would she say that to someone who was always going out of their way for them ?

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    Default Re: how would a pro handle this...

    Here is an idea of how narcisistic she is... she told me when she cheated on her ex, who was a good guy to her it was because the guy she met on vacation she had "chemistry" with...
    What the Hell...

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    Default Re: how would a pro handle this...

    Every now and then you will stumble upon a girl who is damaged. A girl who deep down falls more in love with the guy who treats her poorly instead of the guy who treats her with respect. You feel bad for those who got their wires crossed... if that is your experience here, now you are more aware of the signs and can just avoid this type next time! It sounds like you will end up feeling lucky that she left..


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