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    Default Confusing Girl With A Boyfriend Who Texts Me

    I have a female friend who has a boyfriend. She texts me almost every weekend asking me to get our group of friends together. Last weekend she texted and I said I was busy but I would set something up the next weekend. She started texting me on Wednesday to see if I was still gonna set it up. When her and her boyfriend came over she was laughing at my jokes all night and picking on me when she had the chance. She asked if she could have a glass to drink from and when i got up to go to the kitchen she followed me in. When we got up to leave she walked by me and started patting me on the head. At the bar her boyfriend sat in between us but when i would look over she was bobbing her head to the music the way i always do and laughing at me. He was leaning forward so we started talking to each other behind his back, literally. I think this girl likes me. But I'm not sure. She always suggests all of us getting together and complains about her boyfriends friends and how he won't hang out with her friends. I like her as well I just don't want to make a move and then find out I'm totally misinterpreting her signals. Any thoughts as to whether she is interested and how to proceed?

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    Default Re: Confusing Girl

    While I don't condone banging someone else's girl (there's enough fish in the sea that it's unnessissary, and you'll feel like shit if someone does that to one of your friends, or even you), however I will say I was recently in about the same situation.

    End result? A couple weeks later she and her boyfriend were broken up and next thing I know she's inviting herself over to my place.

    My advice is just keep doing exactly what you're already doing and it will probably play out the same way. Push and pull. Flirt a little, but keep her chasing. She'll get the hint and either dump her BF or he'll get fed up with her behavior and do it for her. Just make sure you're not obviously playing an active role in this and let her do all the work. Bonus, because of this she'll be more invested in you than if it was just regular dating, so expect your new relationship with her to move fast unless the breakup was particularly hard on her. Also, by having interest before the breakup (and especially the friendship) you're less likely to be just a "rebound" or a "mistake", but it's still something to watch out for. A worse thing to watch out for is that if this chick is not loyal to this guy, she's likely not going to be loyal to you either (especially if she tries to get with you before the breakup!) So have fun but use extreme caution about getting too serious-- once a cheater always a cheater.

    Finally, if it doesn't play out like this, don't be surprised. You're not privy to the hidden variables, like what's going on with her BF or her past history with this sort of thing or even what time of the month it is. Anything can happen. All the more reason to let it play out rather than force it. If you feel a strong desire to force it anyway, be as subtle as possible. Use double entendres and even NLP, but never say it directly until she does first. If she's convinced it was all her idea, she'll make it happen. Again, let her do all the work.


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