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    Default Constant flirt

    A little background is needed here. This girl and I have known each other for years. We have always been flirty with each other, but neither has tried to escalate. In recent years, I've heard talk from mutual friends that she thought I was very attractive. I'm now to the point where I want to escalate, but do so in a manner not seeming desperate. We text sometimes, but there are times, like today, that she doesnt reply. Is she trying to play hard to get? How do I heat things up with her?

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    Default Re: Constant flirt

    Friend for years that's now secretly attracted to you? Put her in a position to seduce you! Forget the text, take her out and do something fun. Preferably something that gets the adrenaline pumping. Horror movies, roller coaster rides, etc all induce the fear-arousal response in women and get them horny as hell. If nothing else, go for drinks after-- in vino veritas --she may very well just spill the beans on this crush she's been nursing over you.

    You've been friends forever, so the comfort building is already done. She admitted to someone she's attracted to you, so the attraction building is also mostly done. All you need is proximity, a little kino, maybe even some more sexual flirting than the past, and she will likely jump you. If not, she may still want you to make the first move, but she's certainly not going to put up anything worse than a little token resistance.

    Go for it! And post your results here!

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    Default Re: Constant flirt

    I asked her if she'd like to catch a movie, and she responded quite enthusiastically. Haven't set a date in stone yet, but it looks promising. I get the feeling shes trying to play it off and act all cool and collected; I saw her today and she didn't even mention it.

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    Default Re: Constant flirt

    Quote Originally Posted by himj1 View Post
    I asked her if she'd like to catch a movie, and she responded quite enthusiastically. Haven't set a date in stone yet, but it looks promising. I get the feeling shes trying to play it off and act all cool and collected; I saw her today and she didn't even mention it.
    Awesome. Sounds like she's really into you. Next time when you're asking a girl out, be sure to have a time in mind. A.) it makes you seem decisive and in command, and B.) it gives her the option of saying not without rejection nor closing a door on the idea. If a girl does say no, you can throw another time/day out there. If she still says no, just be cool and assume she has shit to do that week and back-burner her and ask again in a couple weeks.

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    Default Re: Constant flirt

    Alright, so i texted her to confirm for saturday, and she said she didn't know for sure, that she was grounded(which she already told me). She also said it was NOT a definite no for saturday. I suggested that if Saturday didn't work, then we should get together over spring break. She said that would be great. What is the expert opinion here and how should I proceed?


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