Re: I need help, my girlfriend of 12 years left me, she was the only girlfriend I've
I've made some comments in blue. While they may seem harsh, pleae don't give up. Read up on "inner game" (PUA term). Essentially, it's how to feel better about yourself.
Originally Posted by hopelessromantic
How you feel about your looks is how you look.
Members on this board have make comments on wearing clothes that make them stand out. The ones that have problems, are uncomfortable in the new threads and it is projected ahead of them wherever they go. If you can's embrace who you are; why would any woman?
Good news: Men fall in love with the women they find beautiful, women find beautiful the men whom they have fallen in love.
Reread that, over and over. It is the truest statement I have made (in a long list of true statements).
You don't have to buy love or be good looking; as crazy as women are, their whole existence is propelled by how they feel (usually, at that moment). By relation, how you make them feel.
Why does a woman, who loves her husband, leave with some guy at a bar only to regret it later? Becasue that guy at the bar made her feel something (good) she had never felt before or was missing in the relationship between her and her husband.
People are inherently limited by a lack of positive self-esteem. Women, moreso than men. If you can make a woman feel good (non-sexually); she may fall in love with you.
Looks do matter, in one respect. EFFORT. If you put no effort out, you will get no return. You may be the ugliest man earth has ever beheld, however, if you maintain good hygeine and make a real effort to look decent, you will actually be better than a great number of men.
I'll check this thread out for a response from the OP before I delve any deeper.
I have failed more than most men have tried.
Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.