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    soupcake is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What should I do next to keep her?

    Hello.

    Let me tell you my story. I currently live at my school together with 90 people, I've been living here now for almost a year and I've managed to get two girls to bed. These two girls are good friends with eachother. The first one took me some time and the second one just took me a weekend.

    These last three week I have been hanging out with the second one every night and we have been getting busy, kissing, flirting and having fun, but not sex sober yet, only when we're drunk in the weekends. She is a "bro"-type of a girl that "rejects" negs and take them as fun. If I try to indicate that I like her she sometimes responds and sometimes doesn't. Many people at my school would not at all describe her as a relationship type of a girl so its kind of hard for me to take our "thing" to a relationship thing!

    My bestfriend is also her best friend, and we're all hanging out at school sometimes. The problem here is for example: Today there was a football match on, me and her was texting while I was with my best friend, she couldnt see the match and she was wondering about the score, so she called him and asked, not me.

    I'm now home at vacation and so is she, im traveling to visit her in about a week and she seems excited, even tho she doesnt always show it. Also when we are texting im trying to show indicators to that I like her, and sometimes she responds to them and sometimes not.

    So to narrow it down. She is a "bro"-type of a girl that is hard to give a neg to because she doesn't respond to them as any other girl would. Her best friend is also my best friend so she takes contact to him in some situations insted of me. Many people also looks at her as a none relationship type so I dont know how to take our thing to that level.

    What should I do?

    Thanks

    Soupcake

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What should I do next to keep her?

    you are 100% in the friendship zone, with potential benefits, I don't see her as a type that is willing to settle down, based on your description.


    The only thing you can do is go with the flow, because it seems, she's not really reacting to your stuff...

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    soupcake is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What should I do next to keep her?

    Could you elaborate why you think that im in the 100% friend zone with her, so I atleast learn anything about this situation?

    The reason why I don't think that im in the friendzone with her is because when for example we text she tend to send me hearts like "<3" and kisses ":*" Also she also wonders alot what im doing and often it is her that leads the conversations with questions and such. She is also syked that im comming to visit her for a few days.

    If I can't find out where this is leading before I'm visiting her I think that I'm going to put some pressure on her while im visiting to find out if this is just the friendzone or something more.


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