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    Red_Key is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Kiss close and Number close failed

    Hello,

    I went to a party and approached 2 girls.

    With the first girl I was able to talk to her. It seems that the conversation was flowing well. I was able to hold her hands, telling her that I would like to read her mind and that she had to give me her hands. I also was able to caress her hair fringe. She allowed me to do all that, but then I said: "I would like to kiss you". She answered by saying "no". How should I proceed?

    The other girl, I approached at the end of the party, the lights were already on, and everybody was leaving the party room. With her, I was able to talk, she seemed interested in the conversation. I was able to hold her hands and ask her about here rings. And even before that I held her hands trying to read her mind( I ask her to choose a number between 1-5). I got the number wrong and told her that I was trying to prove to her that it does not work. Well, at the end I asked for her phone number and she was reluctant. I did not insist and told her that I would give her my phone number. So, she got my number, but I do not believe she will call me back...

    Maybe it is important to tell you that neither of the two girls are English speakers, but they were able to communicate with me. I do not know if the language was a barrier.

    What did I do wrong? How could I improve?

    Thank you in advance.

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    things you did were all you, just because a girl lets you do something without reciprocating, is a sign that she's probably creeped out and is just being nice by following along with whatever you wanted to do. But deep down, you had NO chance whatsoever.. strictly because all you did was nice guy stuff and nothing that stood out...

    How can you improve? here's a few exmaples of how things OULD have went.. just a few ideas...

    rings.. "you're boyfriend almost got you one for every finger except the real deal!"

    To get her number, instead of playing a 5 year old game, of guessing a number.. be like, I’m psychic and I can guess you phone number, write it on that napkin (or better yet in your phone) and befre she gives it to you, make random numbers up. Then take it and say.. ohh damn! I feel like a rookie amateur! And go with it.

    When you kiss a girl, maybe start with a hug then lead to a kiss and NEVER tell them your actions. It’s like saying, I am not going to eat your food, then start eating. Or I am going to run now, then run. We are not programmed robots!

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    Don't say "I would like to kiss you". If you want to get to that, you can always say something along the lines of "Would you like to kiss me?" and if she says no, you casually say "Hey, I never said you could" and keep building rapport. (I think this is in Mystery's Method, but I'm not sure)

    Also, you don't give a girl your phone number, she is the one to give it to you.

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    I would first be happy that you approached, got kino and were able to talk to these girls.

    Keep doing that. The rest will come naturally.

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    First off.. You showed signs of being a "nice guy" you don't ask to kiss her, you just do it! But that is if you built necessary rapport to where she's comfortable with you. You don't ask her to kiss her, you tell her.. Or ask her if she wants to kiss you which works.. Another thing, don't give out your number, you're supposed to be in CONTROL! Get her number, if she doesn't comply move on or go for a FB close.

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    To get her number, instead of playing a 5 year old game, of guessing a number.. be like, Iím psychic and I can guess you phone number, write it on that napkin (or better yet in your phone) and befre she gives it to you, make random numbers up. Then take it and say.. ohh damn! I feel like a rookie amateur! And go with it.
    Has that actually worked? lol

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    It seems to me like you piled on the openers, and failed to demonstrate value. Next time try something from your own repetoire, and establish more of an emotional connection before going in for a kiss close. and as for the number close, its simple- Don't ask her for her number, tell her how she's going to give it to you. Like for example, I like to use the blank contact in my phonebook..I open to create a new contact and give them my phone and say "take care of this for me"..they have no option, and provided your value is clear and demonstrated, it will never fail.

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    Default Re: Kiss close and Number close failed

    Girl left me a OPEN WINDOW to hook up I was in her room all lone in the house after we even watched a movie And I didn't go for it cause I didn't know how And I was a little stoned she kicks me out after 20 min politely, do I have another chance with her?

    then she says when do i work next.. maby still al ittle interested in me? idk.. smoking didnt help but i always fucking choke when it comes to making the kiss close this isnt the 1st time! and this co worker is hot!


    This girl works with me! How did I not hook up I always fail at the kiss close .... I suck


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