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    jack is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy what to do...

    So i met this girl at a party and we spoke for ages the conversation was going well it was great. Then a random drunk person yelled out that she should get with me, which made her uncomfortable so she went to get a drink. While she was getting a drink another person i dont even know said i wanted to talk to her (a lie so she would go back) and suggested that she get with me which spooked her out aparently, i was very annoyed that some randoms would try to "help" me.

    So when she approached me thinking i wanted to talk to her she looked extremly nervous, I felt bad so I tried to return to the relaxed conversation we had before. Soon i tried to move closer to her to get with her but she would go red and act nervous and move away. I was unsure, I thought she was just nervous so I tried again and again she moved away, i did this while maintaining the conversation. It occured to me that maybe she had never even kissed a guy before I dont know, she didnt flat out reject me she was realy nice and just asked if we could go inside. So we did and she was still nice and even made a joke, before she went to the bathroom with one of her girlfriends.

    aparently she is by no means a party girl, but actually quite reserved even a bit innocent and extremly nice. shes not the kind of girl to go out every weekend to drink and kiss boys etc. infact aparently she went to this party not wanting to get with anyone, instead just wanting friendly conversation.

    It was still kinda awkward so we didnt really speak for the rest of the night, i had to leave soon after anyway, i felt bad about what happened. So a few days later i added her on facebook spoke to her in chat and apologiesed for the awkwardness of the situation and explained that i didnt even know the people who asked her to get with me and that i was sorry if they made her uncomfortable. I explained how i enjoyed meeting and talking to her, she did aswell, then we shared a good conversation for a good hour or so.

    having not got this girls number or anything should i continue to follow her up on facebook, start more conversations on chat to become more friendly or something? i may not see her again and she was the kind of girl that ticks all the boxes, gorgoeus smart etc.

    i dnt wanna seem like a freak over facebook chat or anything, its been a few days since we last chatted when i added her, advice?

    Thanks

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    ricky98 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: what to do...

    man.. step back for a sec.. you spoke to this girl at a party for ages?? What is she.. your best friend? Do you want to sleep with her? Than dont just talk to her, show her your real intentions, dont be a coward.. Escalate physically, tease her, be playful.. Create attraction.. Next time do this and you wont have any other problems..


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