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    Number23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need advice in a complicated situation!!

    Hope you guys are ready for this one. Its been driving me nuts for a couple weeks now.....

    There's this girl(Sarah) I met in august at my gym. Extremely hot! I work there and she trains with one of our personal trainer(the trainers a close family friend of hers named Dian) . Anyways, we talked a bit but not much. Come January I started going back to college and she ended up being in one of my classes. We got to know each other pretty well and did all our group projects together and hanged out a lot. I didn't want anything but being friends but she flirted with me hardcore. Like hugs, holding hands etc... I always assumed she had a bf but she never brought him up. One day I was telling her about how I got invited to the college football tryout and may possibly play next year for the team. She then said her ex bf was on the team last year.... Soo after that I started flirting with her, walking her to class, her car, texting a lot because I assumed she was single. Started having feeling for her which i said i wouldn't do...People at work started noticing that she flirts with me hard!! So last week they kept telling me to ask her out and I was thinking about it. The next day her trainer(Dian) and another trainer(Kate) and I were having a conversation and kate brought up that I should ask her out in the presence of Dian...(fark) To my surprise Dian said she had a bf.... WTF.... But Sarah doesn't seem like she would lie unless she's lying to Dian and hasn't told her about the breakup or I just got played or they got back together. I'm not sure if she's possibly trying to see if I like her back to give her a reason to leave him. Her facebook status doesn't say "in a relationship" and there's barely any photos of them together.

    What do I do? I've avoided her for a wee so far because i was soo pissed which has been pretty easy since the semesters done but in 2 weeks she's leaving on a trip around Asia for 2months and i have to go to her going away party and I dont know any of her friends. My best friend said to just go bang a random chick and I'll be over it.. Lol farken gotta love your boys when it comes to advice. Iol

    *sry if its hard to read and kinda farken long I wrote this on my iPhone during work.

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    DuncanIdaho is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need advice in a complicated situation!!

    Sure seems like you've waited a long time to escalate didn't you? By my approximation she's been throwing herself at you since January but you didn't hit the ball out of the park.

    I don't mean to sound rude, but instead of gossiping maybe you should try, ya know moving forward? I mean if she's flirting and holding your hand and hugging and shit you've pretty much got a GREEN LIGHT.

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    Number23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need advice in a complicated situation!!

    Thanks for the reply but I really didn't want anything but to be friends and then it became to late... Yup my stupid fault because I didnt see it earlier..

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    DuncanIdaho is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need advice in a complicated situation!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Number23 View Post
    Thanks for the reply but I really didn't want anything but to be friends and then it became to late... Yup my stupid fault because I didnt see it earlier..
    It's cool I'm actually speaking from experience, I once had a girl pretty much say DUNCAN, BANG ME and I didn't escalate.

    But ya know what? You probably shouldn't give up completely yet, next time you two are together keep it fun and just try to keep it moving. But hey either way keep it up 23.

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    Default Re: Need advice in a complicated situation!!

    Haha appreciate it man but I guess I'll know for next time.


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