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    latin hurricane is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    A managed to get a hot playette to my place. We dance, touched, caress and talk about sex and our obvious attraction to each other. I know she is a playette because she did every SINGLE one of the expected behavior. By the way, Pandora's Box is amazing.

    But then she says; I can't kiss you. You know my situation. I'm in a relationship.

    She never mentioned her boyfriend name. She never said; I have a boyfriend. But she said; "I wish I have what I have with you, with him"
    She is talking about the goofy, highly sexual connection.

    It has been 5 days since I haven't contacted her since I think she is putting me through yet another wall. I asked my female friend and she agrees she wants to do something but it is not sure because of boyfriend.

    WHAT DO YOU THINK I should do? Keep waiting for her to come around or tease her? Or something else?

    Thank you for any ideas,

    L.

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    jellymint43 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    Quote Originally Posted by latin hurricane View Post
    A managed to get a hot playette to my place. We dance, touched, caress and talk about sex and our obvious attraction to each other. I know she is a playette because she did every SINGLE one of the expected behavior. By the way, Pandora's Box is amazing.

    But then she says; I can't kiss you. You know my situation. I'm in a relationship.

    She never mentioned her boyfriend name. She never said; I have a boyfriend. But she said; "I wish I have what I have with you, with him"
    She is talking about the goofy, highly sexual connection.

    It has been 5 days since I haven't contacted her since I think she is putting me through yet another wall. I asked my female friend and she agrees she wants to do something but it is not sure because of boyfriend.

    WHAT DO YOU THINK I should do? Keep waiting for her to come around or tease her? Or something else?

    Thank you for any ideas,

    L.

    what do you mean by "tease" her?
    (i'm learning here)

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    latin hurricane is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    Tease her.

    For example; I figure she is already invested since she is the one who offer to stop by my place and drink wine. She has been texting me highly sexual messages for the last five weeks. By teasing her I mean, use the pull push technique. I have already pull away by not asking her why hasn't she contacted me since that day (I think she freaked out or is trying to see if there are repercussions to stopping by my place and getting physical and flirtatious).

    She also might be trying to get me frustrated, typical playette, but I think I should just come strong and confident next time I approach or contact her. Like she is another option but I'm not waiting around.

    What do you guys think I should do?

    L.

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    jellymint43 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    Quote Originally Posted by latin hurricane View Post
    Tease her.

    For example; I figure she is already invested since she is the one who offer to stop by my place and drink wine. She has been texting me highly sexual messages for the last five weeks. By teasing her I mean, use the pull push technique. I have already pull away by not asking her why hasn't she contacted me since that day (I think she freaked out or is trying to see if there are repercussions to stopping by my place and getting physical and flirtatious).

    She also might be trying to get me frustrated, typical playette, but I think I should just come strong and confident next time I approach or contact her. Like she is another option but I'm not waiting around.

    What do you guys think I should do?

    L.
    Five weeks? wow, she must be pretty hot...that seems like a long time!
    i have to learn this technique for myself...

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    ohh the class, I feel that if she wnated to do stuff with you, it would have happened already and she would have left her boyfriend.

    The fact that she's still with him, despite a;; this sexual stuff you have been talking about, means he's still beating you in SOME way.

    so you ask, how do I crack this problem?! First off, she has a boyfriend, so the sexual talk just makes you look a little over the edge. Instead, take a step back, be supportive and be there for her when she asks you to, reason she would come to you is somehting her boyfriend lacks.. you need to do the things she can't with her boyfriend, so if trust is the issue, conquer that area. If she's just hot and wants to sleep around, she already got it, she don't need to pick you.

    You should also make it look like the boyfriend is a barrier.. say somehting like .. "too bad you're in a relaiotnship, I'd really give you a nice massage and make feel crazy good. But that would be cheating isn't it? ..." if she starts to feel she's missing out, then you are golden.

    The key here is to apply pressure.. but in a way where actions are speaking not words.. cuz words sometimes come out in a negative way which can backfire our truw intension.

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    lamarre is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    ^ Wow, you are truly brilliant

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    Default Re: A Playette Went To My Place But Stop Because Of Boyfriend. What's Next?

    lol.. thx


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