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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    Are you reading our messages? Dude stop calling her and giving her attention for a few weeks and see what happens!!

    Just go out and have fun with other girls.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    I'm reading, I just want to know how freezeouts work. 2 weeks seems a bit harsh considering I contact her nearly everyday and she used to aswell up intil last week.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    I was stuck in a similar situation before... I had got with a chick slightly older than me on a night out, and quickly become obsessed. I showed her way too much attention and was texting etc everyday. I even stopped over at her place the once and she made it clear that I "wasn't allowed to shag her", but still shared a bed with me kissing me. After a few weeks I realised I was being over-keen and a wuss and it was working against me, so I backed off. Then whenever she would message me in future, if she wanted to go for a drink, I'd just say no for a little while. Not in a harsh way, I'd still hold a conversation.

    It didn't work out for me in this situation as she got back with her ex, but it was amazing to see how her attitude changed when I stopped making the effort, and also I had to break myself away from it becoming one-itis which it nearly did.

    Sounds very much like you are suffering one-itis, back off, get out there and meet someone new, if it doesn't work on the girl in question, don't worry. There's plenty more fish in the sea as they say.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    After I didn't hear from her for 6 days she told me her phone was cut off, I believed it but she did have another phone appear today which she must of had in the last 5 days. Anyway I know I've lost control here long ago.

    I know this girl keeps telling me how she wants to be single, like today she said it without me asking. Just telling me how she "wants to get to know herself, and to find out who she is as a single person because she was in a relationship for long" then when I get her on the train I'm able to kino and have her allow me to put my arm around her joke etc. Then she goes and kills it by getting into "work mode" ignoring the shit out of me at random times with random people even though she likes walking about with me. Then there is THIS GUY.

    Well this asian guy at our work just started like a month ago, he is weird.

    Braids and tatoos but talks like a woman. He seems to like her and doesn't realise how well we know eachother. Since I've seen the two of them at work, he keeps going up to her and when she is around him she has no worrys making him feel that she doesn't like me or isn't with me. She turns her back to me, talks to him more and other weird things. She seems to like him, never even talks to me around him. He's pretty new to work, AFC as shit "If you ever need help moving your stuff we will all be there to help you!!!!!" ina gay voice. Meanwhile looks at me like he wants to fight.

    Like we all go the train home weeks ago and it was the first time I had seen him, and she would sit away from me and then told him to come sit next to her when he sat in front. I got angry/jealous then she started talking to me more when she saw that.

    I told why do that you're making me look like an idiot. She tried denying it and then we departed and went home together. he was like "CYAAAA GUYYYYZ" Then tonight she was all near me and flirting one minute and she kept talking dirty to me while and we got changed ready to go and the guy spotten us and turned around all upset when she tried to talk to him and then went on the train with us and was he was trying to get rid of me and so was she in a way.

    He was asking me where am I going, and she was like "ur going a different way than us" and was pulling a weird face. He was like "I think its easier for you to go that way" I told him "I know how to get home" I said to her "u trying to get rid of me" and she pulled some other really weird face.

    Guy was acting like he seriously wished I wasn't there and then she sat down and jumped like an AFC and sat next to her. She sat there barely speaking to me but not saying that much to him. The guy talks like a woman but wants a piece of her. Guy eventually got off and really didn't want me staying with her I mean who the hell is he I don't know where he come from. She also had a look of relief when he left but she still acts as if she was into him more.

    I got home my battery died and I got a txt from her saying "sex" she doesn't even live near me, I txt her her back telling her I just got back now and then I tried to call no response. What should I do about this crap, I can't take how we get on like crazy going to work, then she treats me like a nobody around people and acts as if she likes this gayfc? I've been with her first but we are not official. It's like I let her get away with her warmth towards this tatted up, braided AFC guy and showed no signs of jealousy when I should tell her WTF, then again....we are nothing official and she is "single"

    This guy has no game, and seems like the ultimate yes man. I don't get it...she likes his body tattoos? wtf. I just seen right now she wrote on her facebook she got home, I wrote a post saying I got a taxi and so did someone else and she deleted the whole thing. Btw, she did this with a message from last week that she asked to me post on her wall. I think she doesn't want me saying "stuff" on their because it would hurt her ex boyfriend. What should I do now?

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    Too much attention, man. You're giving her too much attention. And the guy isn't that AFC, it's your jealousy that makes you think he's AFC. The fact that you went ape-shit the first time you saw him and when the "u trying to get rid of me" occurred is enough for her to consider that guy for dating, also, he kinda managed the whole "I think its easier for you to go that way" thing pretty well, since he managed you to turn all defensive.

    Also, you're putting too much energy into the whole thing ( a.k.a. investing ).

    What you need to do is to change your mindset a little bit. All this negative energy regarding that guy isn't doing you anything good. Instead, try turning everything in your favor. She gives him too much attention? Fine, let her, that way she'll see that you're better than him.

    Once you get confident, everything will turn around for you.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    That's why when she got on the train and he ran and sat down I didn't even try to sit next to her. Just thought myself fuck it but then he must of thought to himself I was allowing him to do what he wanted and take the piss out of me kind of.

    I do stand and keep my distance when she talks to people, but with this guy just blatantly disrespects me(turning her back, no eye contact, one word responses with dull tone) and I just hate people who change around others in general.

    I never bothered to speak to her today and she double txt me telling me she was doing a training course, then 8 minutes later telling me how she has sore feet and blisters.

    I txt back flirting a little even though I shouldn't(told her we will look good in new uniform and her buttons will pop on her shirt) she txt back with two kisses which she used to do but hasn't done in awhile.

    She mentioned her feet again looking for sympathy and asked me how I got home(even though I told her twice and wrote on her FB page) I then mentioned to her how "I went to the gym earlier and it was good to work up a sweat....."

    So I really want to kiss close, I've only kissed her twice, 2 months ago now for fuck sake. I also feel like bringing up her behavior and that guys behavio. Should I? would be interesting to see what she has to say when I tell her I think he likes her.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    Sounds like you have a severe case of one-itis.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    If you're asking yourself if you should stop calling her, you are way beyond the point where you should have stopped.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    When I meet her I kino hard even though its on the train. How do I go for the kiss in friendzone.

    So we go to work together and get on the train and I do great with kino, hands on her shoulder, making her laugh, sometimes she is in a bad mood on the train so I don't go for it.

    What is stopping me now though is we didn't speak for a week because her phone wasn't working and as soon as I got to speak to her she was talking to me like a proper friend and wouldn't really talk like she used to.

    So the way she acts makes me feel like a "FRIEND" and that me just going infor the kiss while she looks at me would get the rejection and speech of "I told you I'm single bla bla" feels alot more awkward now than weeks ago.

    Everytime she greets me or says goodbye she always turns her cheek aswell. So how can I get over the feeling of awkwardness. I know this so well and we talk dirty all the time and she is starting to think that I am accepting this friendzone thing even though I can tell she would want me to make a move.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    You're in WAY too deep now.

    Nothing will happen.

    Forget about her and focus on other chicks.


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