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    Oddman84 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I stop calling her?

    his sweet girl I've been speaking with for two months, well she acted like we were a couple straight away. Lots of calls and txts, and we made out. Problem was she had recently just come out of a relationship so I was(as usual for some reason) Mr. Rebound 3000. I started to fall in love with her and then she went distant for a week and said her phone had been broken. After this crushed me I lost a bit of feeling for her but we rebuilt things. Everything was going good accept she didn't like when I got jealous(although I'm not a jealous guy) but she kept telling me storys of men flirting asking for her number etc and I just felt a bit annoyed. The final nail in the coffin was when this guy friend of hers at our workplace told me she called him 10 times. I had to ask her, the guy was ugly anyway but when I asked she got so defensive, told me she didn't have to explain herself to anyone and said I should I told him nothing was going on and we are friends(because she doesn't want anyone to know at work) so she went a bit cold after this and eventually told me she just wanted to be friends and doesn't want a boyfriend. I was as cool as I could be but pleaded a lil bit and then we met up 5 x after this at work and she was acting like my girl. Walking with me everywhere and still calling me, intil this week. This week she has stopped calling me and I'm really upset. She called on Thursday asking me when I'm working next and I told her wednesday. On her facebook lots of guys flirt with her and some guy was asking for her number and said he wanted to go out with her sometime kinda begging her and she replied to him. I've not heard from her since Thursday. I will call her a few times till then but do you think I should give up?

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    Your problem is you are coming across as a needy wussy and girls HATE that. This is the number one reason guys are put in the friend zone. Stop calling her and texting her immediately. Go out and better yourself, read some stuff out there on the game. Meet new people, and increase your social value. If you do this she will start trying to communicate with you again, if she doesn't then just move on. There are hundreds of other girls out there.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    Agreed to what Foxy said, let her call/text you because you're being needy and girls hate that. I think she's playing games with you. You're already in the friend-zone, and there is no need to get jealous over someone who isn't your girl. I advise you to shower her less attention.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    It's annoying. When we are at work she pretends she doesn't really like me but she walks around with me but she has this thing of not wanting anyone to know. The bar we work in played this song about a girl "having issues and needing some time" she stared at me for like 8 seconds and looked really into me it was so sweet. Then later when I walked past she kinoed me by tapping my shoulder and just standing there. Later on she got on the train with some guys and one of them knew her brother so she just ignored me. When I tried to talk to her she just looked up at me like who are you. She got off the train and just waved bye to me and left. Later on she called me right away and I wasn't all that friendly to her so she called me again obviously feeling bad and was like "Hi Sexy....did u eat bla bla" Well that was last 9 days ago. The next night at work we ended up getting on the train with this girl friend of hers and she sat there ignoring me when I tried to speak to her again so I froze her about for a couple of minutes and turned my body and I could see it was bothering her then I stopped. As I got off she asked me which was she had to go and I was like "I dunno I'm going this way" because I already explained to her the station she needed to get to. I turned and said bye to me and we hugged I never said anything only cya to her mate who was waving and then my girl was like take care. I felt bad immediatly because she kinda hit her jaw on my shoulder too. I called her as soon as I got back and she told me she was tired and asked me where I was. So since then she hasn't been allover me I guess she might of thought I wasn't interested even though I have been contacting her pretty much everyday and she doesn't seem to be as warm to me when I do get her on the phone which was only 2 times last week. I do really like her and things could work because we do get on it's just at work she is really distant. I asked her about it on the phone even though I felt I was in the wrong and I just said "It was funny, we didn't speak, funny kinda weird" and she was like I was tired and mentioned she gets in those moods because she has to face her moaning mother when she gets back home.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    Quote Originally Posted by Oddman84 View Post
    So since then she hasn't been allover me I guess she might of thought I wasn't interested even though I have been contacting her pretty much everyday and she doesn't seem to be as warm to me when I do get her on the phone which was only 2 times last week.
    She knows that you like her!!! That is not the problem. The problem is you are giving her too much attention. You should not be calling her everyday!! Is she wants to talk to you she will call/txt you man.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    What do you think about about this "Needing to move out/find a place" stuff is about. Shit test? she did it to me weeks ago expecting me to say "hey come stay at mine" which I was about to because she had been kicked out but this time she was saying she legit wants to leave her mothers house. She knows I live with family and she is going on about how her ex was a prick but his family didn't mind. I bet she is holding that against me again but I'm getting tired of her crap. Really like her, sweet girl who was cheated on so can get defensive. When we try we get on it's just when she gets in a funny mood she expects me to be able to carry a conversation or put up with her when she is all like "Don't touch me I'm hot" etc.

    Called her 4 times and txt once since Thursday. I will find out if she is going to work on Wednesday but after that or if I get nothing I'm not sure how it's going to go.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    You're over thinking everything and you give her way too much attention.

    Just back off a little...it will do you good!

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    On her facebook every guy flirts with her and this one sad AFC guy wrote a message begging her to go on a date with a kiss, and told her to call him etc, saying shit like "I wish you were all mine" She replied to him a few times just friendly then he messaged her saying "I sent my number bell me" and she wrote something with a kiss and hours later she removed both their messages. Makes me wonder as this guy seems apart of their group of friends but she actually replied to him and the other guysd flirting she didn't.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    If you dont back off you will never get with her.

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    Default Re: Should I stop calling her?

    How many times should I call or how long to freeze out?


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