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    Default Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    A girl I used to be majorly friend-zoned with.
    I've recently upped my game and tried and tested lots of things whilst out sarging, and after a few nights out with this girl again, I believe it is now possible, she seems interested now.

    I'm trying to play it safe and not seem too keen etc. I may be meeting up with her in the week and need tips on boyfriend destroying, I'm pretty confident I can get her bitching about her fella indirectly without bringing it up as she always seems to around me (could that be an IOI?), I read somewhere that I should perhaps seemingly defend him which will make her attempt to prove her point and further downplay him, at which point I can give myself 'higher value' without boasting as such. Thoughts?

    Any other tips or ideas I can use?

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    Here are some things you can focus on:

    1. Failure to commit
    2. Jealousy-inspired arguments
    3. Physically or mentally abusive behavior
    4. Not assertive enough in bed
    5. Being too predictable
    6. Wanting to do off-the-wall things in bed that the girl isn’t into
    7. Acting too needy
    8. Acting withdrawn

    And yes, you should kind of try to "defend" him.
    For exampel if she say that he is to needy

    “Well, you should understand that this guy has nothing else going for him, you’re the only thing in his life that makes him feel important. Without you his life would be meaningless, so you can’t really blame him, he needs you.”

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    A lot of the stuff she brings up is about how damn boring he is, which he totally is. He's about as funny as a cabbage too.

    Usually they're inseperable, but the last month or so she'll turn up without him if I'm out and get a phone call half way through the night asking why he wasnt invited and then start bitching to me. That's happened twice now.

    ďWell, you should understand that this guy has nothing else going for him, youíre the only thing in his life that makes him feel important. Without you his life would be meaningless, so you canít really blame him, he needs you.Ē
    Surely that would backfire, that sounds to me like she'd be guilt-tripped into feeling she has to stay with him?

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    I don't think that would backfire, a lot of girls are really turned off by men that are needy. They don't seem to like the idea of having to take care of their man for the duration of their relationship.
    "No ibo quiete in noctem"

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    I personally think this type of behavior is unethical and do not engage in it. There are plenty of other girls out there.

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    I don't think that would backfire, a lot of girls are really turned off by men that are needy. They don't seem to like the idea of having to take care of their man for the duration of their relationship.
    Sounds genius!

    I personally think this type of behavior is unethical and do not engage in it. There are plenty of other girls out there.
    I've known this girl for 10 years. Her boyfriend is a twat, he has had moments where he has treated her like utter shit. None of her friends like him and her family aren't keen. If it wasn't for all this, I would feel bad and wouldn't bother.

    Besides, I spent all of my pre-University years being the 'nice guy' (and a wuss), and it got me nowhere.

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    Quote Originally Posted by Eagle View Post
    A lot of the stuff she brings up is about how damn boring he is, which he totally is. He's about as funny as a cabbage too.



    ďYou two have become so close that you are more like a sister to him now than a lover. Heís really secure with you so he doesnít feel the need to do anything special any more.

    Donít you see how most marriages evolve? This is the way. Now, with me, Iíd rather keep the spice in a relationship, but I understand that itís hard and most people donít have the time for that sort of thing.

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    Default Re: Tips on Boyfriend Destroying.

    ďYou two have become so close that you are more like a sister to him now than a lover. Heís really secure with you so he doesnít feel the need to do anything special any more. Donít you see how most marriages evolve? This is the way. Now, with me, Iíd rather keep the spice in a relationship, but I understand that itís hard and most people donít have the time for that sort of thing.
    I love it. Superb.


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