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    Default I blew it, what went wrong?

    Hello all. New to this forum, and I need some advise and constructive critisism.* I recently met a girl at a party that was thrown by some mutual friends.* She approached me that night and and we chatted in a corner for almost an hour. The conversation was basically all about our lives, backgrounds etc.* I was planning asking for her number but before I could she asked for mine before a friend pulled her away.* She told me to give her a call sometime.* That was on a Sat night, called her on Monday to set up a date.* I did, for that Thrusday, since it was Easter weekend and she was going home.* We set up dinner for that Thurs.* Had good conversations over dinner, again more lives back grounds etc with some funny stories.*After dinner, she said she had a good time and wanted to*do it again*and to call her next week. Hugged, left.*
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    Called next Monday to set something up for the weekend.* She seemed excited and told me she wanted to take a walk on a historic trail nearby and then dinner.* Made it for Sat. evening.* Texted her on Thurs. everything seemed good, excited about the date.* Did the trail on Sat evening, lots of talking obvi, more of the same topics I guess, then went to dinner.* Thought everything was going ok.* After dinner, I asked if she wanted to watch a movie or something, she said no, she was tired and was going home (it was 8:00pm).* Said she had a good time again, and to text her next week.* Hugged, left.* So texted her yesterday on Tuesday asking how her day was going.* It is now Wed. no response yet. Bad Sign? Should I try to contact again?

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    Default Re: I blew it, what went wrong?

    seems to me u're going to the friend zone u're not there yet but u're very close to it. don't obsess over her but do call her again , of course don't mention her not responding to u're text. plus she seems like she's the one in controle u should be more in controle.if u can show up somewhere she is with a hot girl thats enjoying u're company. that will make her crazy!

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    Default Re: I blew it, what went wrong?

    Yea friend zone I thought so too. I have been on the fence about contacting her again. Any advise on how to steer the Convo or message to leave?

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    Default Re: I blew it, what went wrong?

    "one of my mates is having a house party this weekend, he told me to invite some friends and i think i over did it but it doesnt hurt to invite one more, let me know if your interested" some casual thing like that, then by friday (if she said yes) say that your friend had to cancel .. "but i still feel hyped up, lets go rob a bank!" and eventually ask her out somewhere

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    Default Re: I blew it, what went wrong?

    one time i told a girl to put me in the friend zone and see how long it takes me to get out of it. it wasn't too long.


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