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    Default Is she hung up on her Ex?

    Hey all, I could use some insight on a situation I find myself in. One of my married female friends set me up with one of her friends HB9. We had an amazing first date, lots of kino, flirting, etc...made out a bit toward the end of the evening and parted way. I setup the second date which she was game for (tomorrow) but I was getting very short business like conversations when I've talked to her briefly in between. So I asked my friend that set us up what the deal is because based on the first date I expected her to be very into me. While she does want to go out I'm getting these luke warm phone responses that are throwing me for a loop. So my friend tells me not to let myself get too interested because this girl just got out of a relationship with a guy who she broke up with because he wouldn't commit to her. So my initial response was "WTF why would you even set us up" but to fair I did have a really great time with this girl. So my PUA-dar is telling me to just play it cool, try to escalate things between us and also date some other girls and don't get attached to the outcome because most likely this girl will flake out. I know girls have a habit of running back to there Ex's so any advise other than the things I've mentioned to push her toward getting on with her life. I'd very much like to see her on a more serious basis but I'm keeping my guard up knowing there is a decent chance she will flake out. Any advise other than dating other girls which I'm already doing??? Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Is she hung up on her Ex?

    Having read Pandora's Box, I'd say she is interested, but afraid to be judged as a slut by hooking up with you too soon.

    If that's the case you should keep in touch and try again when she has been single long enough.


    (btw didn't see it was the ask an expert section. I'm not an expert).
    Last edited by Virgil; 05-08-2011 at 08:11 AM.


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