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    finesse is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Trying to get with a good friend that is leaving.

    hey, so there is this girl that i've been trying to get for like the past year. Like a year ago I would try really hard to get, and was really close to her, she even thought of me as one of her best-friends. As time progressed though I got to the point where I think I couldve asked her out and gotten a yes however I chickened out as I was afraid of rejection and that she wanted us to just be friends and so asking her out would've made things weird. And so since realising that it wasn't going to go anywhere if I didnt make the first move, I started talking to her less and so we've kind of drifted apart although we are still close friends. Now she's about to leave in about a month for family reasons and this made me realise that i still have feelings for her and I only have a month left for any chance of getting with her. What should I do to try and get her?
    BTW, we engage in small talk every now and then in person and if we ever talk via text I usually start the conversation although it's never awkward and I feel that we have good sexual chemistry as we're comfortable around each other and play and flirt around with each other every now and then but I can't get a definate sign if she's just flirting with me or if she geniunely likes me.
    HELP please i've only got a month

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    finesse is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Trying to get with a good friend that is leaving.

    help guys please i have limited time until she leaves!

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    Default Re: Trying to get with a good friend that is leaving.

    Go for it dude, there is no difference between flirting and geniunely liking, turn on attraction spikes and do it fast. Ask youre self a question - What will happen if i never get on with her . . . she will find a somebody else, and remember you once in a wile (oh yes he is my friend , i liked him but he was a nice guy ) , also you will take a hammer and start pnching it to your head. This is my moto - IF YOU DON'T PLAY, YOU CAN'T WIN , and also you can never lose even if you play, you can only get a good feedback for next time you are in bad situation, also you will feel much better if you try, muuuuch better !!!!
    You havde to show that you are comfortable with what you are feeling, read a venusian art handbook (m i only one that read this ??? this is like a third time i'm mentionig it today ) it is good. It will probably open your eyes more

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    Default Re: Trying to get with a good friend that is leaving.

    I would do something that spikes her adrenaline. I find dangerous situations where you are in control turn girls on a lot.

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    Default Re: Trying to get with a good friend that is leaving.

    To start things off a month is a LONG time. Calm down before you start tumbling on your mistakes. For starters are you trying to get laid or are you going for a relationship? If you are going to get laid, then take her out and see how the night plays, be forward, use a little kino escalation and be charming. If you are going for a relationship, I hope she isn't going away permanently, why would you want to start a relationship that is going to be an LDR so quickly?
    Good Luck, Javi


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