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    Default Girl at work who has a boyfriend

    Hello,

    I知 sure I知 not the only person to have had this issue. There is this girl at work that I致e known for a short while now; she works in a different team on the other side of the floor. Lately, we have been really getting on well, we tease each other, there is some mild flirting and now we have also been emailing (banter and teasing) each other at work during the day. The problem, as I知 sure you致e gathered, is that she has a long term boy friend. She has mentioned a couple of times she has a bf, and a friend of mine who is also good friends with her mentioned that she had been with her bf for a few years now.

    Basically, I知 not sure what to do. I think that if I just go with the flow and wait for something to happen, it will just eventually die out into nothing. But if I do subtly pursue it, I知 worried that I could ruin my chances and the rapport I致e built up with her.

    If I do pursue it, I知 not sure how I would approach it? For example, I have just started teaching her something to do with work, and during a recent email exchange, she asked me 鉄o when are we getting together? For some lessons . I wasn稚 sure how to respond to that to demonstrate interest, so I just responded in pretty much the same way 展hen would u like to get together? For some lessons . I知 sure I could have responded with something better.

    Alternatively, as she has a bf, I could just forget about it?

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    Default Re: Girl at work who has a boyfriend

    Read up on boyfriend destroying my friend, that also helps. Another thing, YOU schedule the date for giving her the lessons and make sure you game her and give her lots of kino, that could work.

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    Default Re: Girl at work who has a boyfriend

    So you think I should actively try and pursue her and make it obvious, even though she is in a long term relationship and she is in her early 30痴. Obviously I don稚 want to go overboard and risk damaging the rapport/friendship etc. Should I just keep things going and continue teasing and being flirty, and then see what happens?

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    Default Re: Girl at work who has a boyfriend

    look blue if you want her u have to risk u're rapport, to get her destroy the bf, while keeping up the teasing and be more assertive.


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