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    RapidEvolver is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default A pressing question: Multiple encounters, phone #, but nothing else...

    So, I just finished up my second year of college.

    Among everything else that's happened this year, I've run into this particular girl a number of times.

    I met her my freshman year when I was out with the boys, and she was out with some of her sorority sisters. I (drunk) ended up dancing with her somehow. Then, at a house party the beginning of my sophomore year, she asks me if I remember her. It took me a minute to place her, but I eventually did.

    After that, I would run into her at random while doing things on campus; I'm participating in a homecoming parade, and we spot each other, and give extended eye contact. A team I'm working on does a dance in their sorority house, and she's there watching it. Obviously, I'm more than a little intrigued by these random encounters.

    More recently, this past semester, I was at a frat house. Drunk again. I just finish dancing with another girl (and, as my boys told me, making out with her), and I run into this girl again. She calls me by name (which I was sure she didn't know), asks me if I remember her, hugs me, and we talk—I have no idea what about—and I ask her what her tattoo means. I take her number, and that's it for the night. I left about an hour later.

    [Texted her. No response.]

    After that, I ran into her again at another frat house. Not drunk this time. I approach her group of friends and talked to a guy I had class with. She is staring intently at me this whole time until I finally look at her and say hi, followed playfully with "you again!?" She tells me it's her friend's birthday. I wish her friend happy birthday, then she suddenly remembers who I am (we've worked together before at the campus news station—not sure how this is relevant). I talk a little more before seeing someone else I know and go off to talk to them. She walks by at some point during the night and touches me. I turned just in time to see who it was as she was walking out with her sorority sisters. I left some time later.

    [Texted again. No response.]

    I wonder how to go about this. It's one of those things I've been looking back on and trying to sort this out, if for nothing else but the learning experience.

    Should I just go ahead and not worry about it until I see her again? Or should I keep pushing? I haven't the slightest idea of how to go about it.

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    Default Re: A pressing question: Multiple encounters, phone #, but nothing else...

    Don't drink so much, you probably wrote down the wrong number hehehe

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    Default Re: A pressing question: Multiple encounters, phone #, but nothing else...

    Call the number. If she answers or you hear her voice on the voicemail then you will know shes ignoring you. Next time you see her show disinterest and DHV. If its not her # then number close again, or better yet, just hook up the next time you see her.

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    Default Re: A pressing question: Multiple encounters, phone #, but nothing else...

    I feel ya. It happens from time to time. Just brush them off. Make a sarcastic joke or walk right past them. If it's meant to be, they'll make the next move-which should be happening anyways.

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    Default Re: A pressing question: Multiple encounters, phone #, but nothing else...

    If you keep pushing you will come off as desperate, which is unattractive to any female. Frat boy myself it is not hard to get laid in these situations. If that is what you are looking for (a one-night stand) then just dedicate a little more time to her next time you see her. Last thing you want is thinking you are clingy and that you will stalk her. Leave her alone, and play nice next time you see her.
    Good Luck, Javi

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    Default Re: A pressing question: Multiple encounters, phone #, but nothing else...

    I do appreciate it, guys.

    @Svemir: Haha yeah, man... lesson learned.

    @xero007: This makes sense to me.

    @Morrisb and mmresd: That's my general modus operandi. I don't like giving too much attention to any one girl because I specifically don't want to look like a clingy stalker, but if a girl is going out of her way to give me attention, I will reciprocate at least a little.

    Again... much appreciated.


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