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    Default Need help

    New to the forum fyi, but I need some help.

    Little backstory:

    Just got out of a relationship and it's been a while since I've been on a date. My issue is trying to introduce more kino. I think that is my issue.

    Now I landed a number from a HB8 and I'm feeling very good about myself. I just got the number last night and will wait till tomorrow night to give her a call.

    My question is if I should take her out somewhere for free - example, hey i usually go to the park on Sunday morning with the dog, you should join me. Or do I actually ask her out on a date.

    I spent roughly 10 mins just shooting the Sh*t and then landed her number. So she doesn't know too much about me.

    So need to know which type of date and also (which is more important) how to establish kino quickly so the chick doesn't lose interest!


    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Need help

    First, you should get to know her over the phone then chat for a while, once you feel the rapport and some comfort has been built, you ask her to come to the park with you and your dog. She might even have one, she may even love dogs.

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    Default Re: Need help

    If she gave you her real number then keep up the good work. The dog park is a much, much better idea than asking her out on a date.

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    Default Re: Need help

    Kino is supposed to be established at the beginning, say hi next time you are in person with hug and kiss (on cheek of course)? It normally works out well for me. Also, take her out wherever, you don't need to mention "hey this is a date" let it unfold on it's own, play your game and keep the plan to yourself. The less she knows the better, gives you a higher standing. Especially if you are afraid this girl might not want to go on a "proper date".
    Good Luck, Javi

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    Default Re: Need help

    Thank you, I'll give it a shot and just go with the flow.

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    Default Re: Need help

    K so, i called and she said she had to work and will get back to me with her schedule... So 50/50 it's a blow off.


    Should I wait a few days and then text her randomly - nothing serious just random chit chat for a while till we build up a friendship? Or forget about it and move on to the next one?


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