I am a med student currently doing weekend rotations in an emergency department. For the past few months one of the nurses there is always touching me, rubbing-up against me, and flirting with me whenever we are on together. So on my shift last weekend during which time I had been teasing her about having never been on a motorcycle I told her we have to fix that. I handed her a pen and paper without saying anything. Convo goes: Her: Do you want my phone number or my email address? Me: Both. Maybe I'll send you some motorcycle pics. Her: Okay, here, I'll give you my cell She writes down her first name, email address (which contained the year 1980) and her cellphone number. I took it and the convo went me: 1980, huh? her: Why? How old are you? me: How old do you think I am? her: haha! I'm not going there. me: I've got to get back to fasttrack (other part of the emerg) but I'll give you a call soon. Remember to be all excited when I call, be like "hellz yah it's Palmpalm, we are gonna go on a motorcycle ride!" She giggled and I left. I didn't have my phone with me but later that night when I got home I texted her saying "hello, young-lady. Now you have my number too so you can know to be excited when you see me calling " I never got a response. next night I called her, got the voicemail which gave her first and last name, and left the following "hey there frizzy-haired gal (we had been discussing her frizzy hair earlier) I'll give you a call back later, no need to call me." the next day I called again, got the voicemail, hung-up. Sent a text: "paging nurse Alana (not her real name), I called because I have something to tell you but you got to promise to keep it between you and me. Can you keep a secret, Alana?" that was about 30 hours ago and I have not heard back. No text, no phone call. Nothing. Now it get's weirder. If I search for her last name only on facebook (a rare and unique last name), I get someone in the same city with the same firstname, but a different last name! I figure this MUST be her, the odds that it is a different person that has made their profile to be recognized by this other name are low. One of the docs I work under told me he thought she was married. But I never noticed a ring. And she was all over me, unless I completely misread her signals for the past few shifts over the past few months (I'm only there once a week and she isnt always on with me). So, what do I do now? Do I call again? text again? What do I do when I have another shift with her, this weekend maybe? Speak to her? What do I say? I really don't get wtf has happened here. I have never had a girl that seemed that into me not return calls/texts. And the whole different name thing is odd. thoughts?