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    Oddman84 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default She had tears in her eyes what does it mean?

    We were seeing eachother kind of but spent most of our time talking on the phone for 2 months. She broke it off a month ago saying she didn't want a boyfriend and she just come out of a 7 year relationship. She would call all the time but recently stopped.

    Last I had was a txt from her last week talking about the job we work at. I asked her what she really thought about us on monday because I was tired of things. I came on strong and told how "we shouldn't let it go" She said "I'm not letting it go, but this is early still"

    She said to me she doesn't know what or who she wants and that if she had a relationship now it wouldn't last long.

    I txt her to meet me to go to work today and she ignored it. I arrived at work and she wasn't there till late but I caught her at the end of the night(went out my way to find her) she embraced me and smiled(she hugs alot of ppl though) and looked nervous probably because she was guilty for ignoring me. I asked her what time she got here and she said late and that she was at her friend house.

    Her eyes were watering so much, she smiling at me it look like she was gonna cry.

    I looked in hers and I felt emotional and really nervous, she said she had to go so I walked off and told her to take care, she said she would call me but don't think she meant it.

    She looked like she wondered why I never hugged her again but I didn't want to smother her and kept a bit of distance. She was really teary eyed. What could it mean?

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    Default Re: She had tears in her eyes what does it mean?

    Could mean that friend was another guy. Other than that I'm not too sure

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    Oddman84 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: She had tears in her eyes what does it mean?

    It was awkward, like a dream. We both didn't know what to say. Apart of me feels I could of done more, like gave her another hug but then I thought it was enough as I was about to finish work and she had finished. When I looked out of the corner of my I could just see her looking out of hers wondering something. If only she would just tell me how she feels.

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    Default Re: She had tears in her eyes what does it mean?

    Dude if you feel like huging her, hug her ! Don't think what she think she needs. Have you ever got something that you needed even tho you did not know that you need it ? Well hugs are the same, she wont think to herself ''oh i need a hug '' , but a second she gots one she will respect it

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    Oddman84 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: She had tears in her eyes what does it mean?

    Yeah things were going fast but looking back she seemed to expect it but then her body language was disjointed. Like half facing me, then facing me, with a gap in between. Yeah I'm annoyed but at the same time I didn't want her to think I waited all night for her outside to jump on her. It's this whole work thing is so awkward I can't do what I really want, have to think what she might want around work or if someone else will see. Then you got this one guy who is flirting with her attached to her ass nearly and she loves every minute of it and does this in front of me.Then I had someone telling me they were flirting and shit while I was away. Stuff like this kind just gets in my head! I got work on Saturday, and there is some next week. I will call her up tommorow(she usually doesn't answer)but then I might just make my way to work by myself. When we went to work that was the best way to game her. I usually nailed it and had her laughing her ass of and flirting. Is this a lost cause?

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    Default Re: She had tears in her eyes what does it mean?

    If she just got out of a 7 year relationship, it is guaranteed that she:

    • is really confused
    • will gobble up attention from anywhere she gets it
    • subconsciously evaluates ANYONE who flirts with her to be potential boyfriend material
    • compares those people to her ex
    • will be attracted to the qualities that provide the newest most refreshing experience (i.e. are the BEST of that relationship, and the LEAST like the WORST of that relationship)
    • is "dating" whether she thinks she is or not
    • making the kind of mistakes that would undoubtedly hurt someone (i.e. someone who has feelings for her)


    If she's telling you about that relationship, it's code for "I'm hoping you'll get the hint that you're more interested in me than I am you, and I don't have the strength to just come out and say it. I'm hoping you'll go away on your own."

    Your job is to frame it like it's YOUR choice to put her in the friend zone. Use work to your advantage. Show her you're unaffected (do not ignore her) by her disinterest. Talk with and have a gay old time with everyone else in the office.


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