A few weeks ago I met this cute girl in the club. We danced and I got her number. The very next day I invited her to a friend’s party and we ended up making out at the party and afterwards.
She is "high value" and works in sales, so she is super socially savvy. I had to pass like 20 sh1t tests in the first hour, and sh1t tests never stopped.
We met one more time afterwards, had tons of make out, but f-close eluded me.
We had a deep rapport conversation for two hours over the phone a few days ago.
Today, I called her, and invited her for a dance class (I am a salsa dancer). She agreed. About an hour later, I called her to give the details of the class and she was: “maybe we could have dinner instead, I am not too comfortable going to a dance class…” I said: “I forgot to tell you this is an advanced class” (she is not a good dancer) at which point she screamed “I hate you!!” and we laughed if off agreeing to go to a restaurant which I picked.
Things were going smooth, and I was preparing to have an f-close, BUT… she has not showed up… when 15 minutes from agreed time passed, I called her (I know I should have just left)… and she went: “I am so sorry I am lost… I am on my way, are you leaving?” and I replied “I just got here… where are you?” she goes, “one sec, I’ll call you right back… “ and then… long 40 minutes... I finished my food, and saw her incoming call. I declined. She sent text message saying “I am so sorry, I had family emergency, my sister called and I had to handle a situation”… I did not reply, and she ended up calling 3 more times, but did not left a voice mail.
I really need help guys. Was it a sh1t test to see if I will be there waiting for an hour for her? Should I text her saying that it is not a bid deal and I missed her calls because I was driving, or should I keep cold and "punish" her for disrespectful behavior (not showing up, not calling when running late etc). I also thought of de-friending her on fb. What is the best way to show "high value" and move it forward. Please advice! I want this girl, but it looks like she gamed me today.