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    Special is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Mid game crash. Advise Needed!

    Hey guys,

    A few weeks ago I met this cute girl in the club. We danced and I got her number. The very next day I invited her to a friend’s party and we ended up making out at the party and afterwards.

    She is "high value" and works in sales, so she is super socially savvy. I had to pass like 20 sh1t tests in the first hour, and sh1t tests never stopped.

    We met one more time afterwards, had tons of make out, but f-close eluded me.

    We had a deep rapport conversation for two hours over the phone a few days ago.

    Today, I called her, and invited her for a dance class (I am a salsa dancer). She agreed. About an hour later, I called her to give the details of the class and she was: “maybe we could have dinner instead, I am not too comfortable going to a dance class…” I said: “I forgot to tell you this is an advanced class” (she is not a good dancer) at which point she screamed “I hate you!!” and we laughed if off agreeing to go to a restaurant which I picked.

    Things were going smooth, and I was preparing to have an f-close, BUT… she has not showed up… when 15 minutes from agreed time passed, I called her (I know I should have just left)… and she went: “I am so sorry I am lost… I am on my way, are you leaving?” and I replied “I just got here… where are you?” she goes, “one sec, I’ll call you right back… “ and then… long 40 minutes... I finished my food, and saw her incoming call. I declined. She sent text message saying “I am so sorry, I had family emergency, my sister called and I had to handle a situation”… I did not reply, and she ended up calling 3 more times, but did not left a voice mail.

    I really need help guys. Was it a sh1t test to see if I will be there waiting for an hour for her? Should I text her saying that it is not a bid deal and I missed her calls because I was driving, or should I keep cold and "punish" her for disrespectful behavior (not showing up, not calling when running late etc). I also thought of de-friending her on fb. What is the best way to show "high value" and move it forward. Please advice! I want this girl, but it looks like she gamed me today.
    Last edited by Special; 05-21-2011 at 01:16 AM.

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    Svemir is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Advise Needed! Mid game troubles.

    Don't delete her from firends . That shows that you got hurt .
    Maybe she really had an emergency. If i was in your shoues i'd text her saying . '' Tmw(or whenever) i have no plans,if you have need to apologize and tell me what happened this would bethe time ''
    If you meet play it cool, with understanding and try to figure out if she is lying, do not bust her balls on the reason she was late, but the fact that she did not tell you that she had an emergency.
    Or somebody has a better idea ?

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    Default Re: Advise Needed! Mid game troubles.

    I sent her a message with the option to apologize.
    Last edited by Special; 05-21-2011 at 02:28 PM.

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    Default Re: Advise Needed! Mid game troubles.

    Did you get a reply ?

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    Default Re: Advise Needed! Mid game troubles.

    The best thing you can do, I think, is to avoid making it a oneitis. I mean move on and believe that nothing like that will never happen to you again. Figure out a way to totally ignore women's value in the future. You are the higher value one. You went through transformations, you are able to entertain any woman. You don't expect her to support you with her revenue, do you? All that is irrelevent until you decide to live together and use a shared bank account. Add more pride in you: it will help you see her as a person period.


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