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    Perdido76 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Particularly difficult target

    Hello all. I’m a longtime reader, first time poster. I wouldn’t call myself a PUA per se, but a basic understanding of the principles behind the game has definitely changed my life for the better. I am asking for advice because I have a particularly hard target and I thought here would be a good place to ask for advice.

    I have a classic case of one-itis, and I’m dealing with that the recommended way. I haven’t had a problem meeting and hooking up with other girls, but I still can’t get this girl out of my head, and I would like advice about how to close with her, and hopefully make her my girlfriend in the process. Here are some things you should know about her:

    -She is probably smarter than me, and she is also bitter toward men. She has had some bad experiences and she also just got her masters in feminist studies, which didn’t help her attitude in this regard.

    -She is incredibly intuitive, even more so than most girls I’ve met. If she senses a guy is running game on her, she will blow him off totally. I once watched her turn from the fun, awesome girl I know into an ice queen in 10 seconds when a loser hit on her, and then when the guy walked away she said, “I know I seemed rude, but he wanted to fuck me. I wasn’t interested, so talking to him would have been wasting both of our time.”

    -Right now I’m in the “zone” where it could go either way—LJBF or close. For the next 3 weeks she will NEVER be alone because some friends from out of town are staying with her. After 3 weeks she will be out of the country for 3 more weeks, which makes me inclined to wait until she comes back to try to close. But I would still like to hear your thoughts about this—note that I am still going to hang out with her these next few weeks, and hopefully make a good impression on her friends, but I’m not sure how to close when her friends are there, and even if it would be possible, I’m not sure if it would be helpful long term.

    I guess the bottom line is that I need to figure out effective strategies to build attraction without being obvious about the fact that I am running game. I am certain that she will see through any pre-canned routine 10 seconds in, and then hate me and associate me with the bad relationships she’s had in the past.

    Thoughts???

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    HotRichRhea is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Particularly difficult target

    I think your short term goal is going to be getting her to think about you while she's gone. Make a good impression on her before she leaves. Show her a fun time, and have a blast together while you can. Keep it cool, don't bake her five dinners every night in the next three weeks like Steve Urkel would for Laura. Have the mindset that you are a great man having fun with a great woman, as opposed to you making a three week sales pitch for her. When all is said and done before she leaves, let it be known you are interested in her, and let her think about you for the whole duration of the trip.
    Edit: rookie mistake. I saw this thread title in "most recent discussions. I completely overlooked the "ask the expert" portion of it. My apologies.
    Last edited by HotRichRhea; 05-22-2011 at 02:33 PM.

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    Default Re: Particularly difficult target

    The closing time should be good pressure to do something. is there ANY way you can get her to be alone even for a few seconds?? Send the other friends on errands or signal you got something private to say.

    PS-Don't say she's smarter than you. Don't put them on a higher level. DHV (Demonstrate Higher Value)

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    Default Re: Particularly difficult target

    Next time you see her, approach her, say hi to her friends then ask her friends if you can borrow her for a minute which isolates her from her friends and you n-close. You have a negative mindset, which isn't good, you should have confidence that you can get this girl. She probably may even want you more then you want her but you don't know til you approach, so next time you see her, get your ass out there and DO IT!

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    Default Re: Particularly difficult target

    I agree with Jack Greezy, just do it.

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    Default Re: Particularly difficult target

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    you should have confidence that you can get this girl.
    Confidence is not something you have or don't , you have to build it and it builds trough pozitive feedback


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