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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Thanks for all the advice guys. Each one of them is useful and will help me.

    But I was thinking... What if something unexpected happens?
    What if she says that she doesn't want to give her phone # ?
    She says she cannot come walk with me in the date I propose?
    She tells me she is currently seeing someone else?

    thanks

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Red, to answer your last four questions, in my short time studying seduction, one thing I've learn is that sometimes you can't control the outcome of a situation no matter how much thought and planning you put in to it. Just act, and see what happen. Theory crafting (talking about what could happen and how to react to it) is all fine and dandy but action is what yields results.

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Hey guys, something unexpected happened!

    1) At school, I am almost sure that she saw me but she did not even come to say "hi". And she was smiling when I looked at her, but she did not look at me.

    2) And on top of that, I saw her with another guy.

    Is that competition? I do not know if the guy has her phone number already and if they know each other for a long time, but I have the impression that he is interested in her.

    Should I just proceed as planned when I see her tomorrow? Or should I adapt the plan since there is someone else in the game?

    Thanks a lot guys!
    Last edited by Red_Key; 08-11-2011 at 11:27 AM.

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Proceed dude, but go in for the kill!! This random AFC should give you the time constraint to just go for it!! If she says no or says she has a guy, just gracefully acknowledge it and move on!!! use the techniques you've learned on this one for the next!!!

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Thanks for all the help guys. Sorry to disappoint you, because I failed (or maybe not yet).

    Last time I saw her I did not notice any interest from her.

    I wonder if I was too slow and maybe I should have tried to number close before in the preceding encounters...

    What do you guys think about continuing with this girl?

    Thanks again, you guys are great!

    PS: In the same day, I went to a bar and approached a 2 set of HB8. Did not work too well! At one point they said they did not want to talk about university and 2 minutes later they said they wanted to stay alone.
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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Don't worry dude!!! I'd say move on from this one, if she's literally not giving any IOI''s then savr your game for better Targets!! remember, its her loss, not yours....

    what game you spit at the HB8 in the bar?

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Yeah, she did not show me IOIs the last day. BUT I am pretty sure she was interested in me at some point! And maybe she still is. Looking at me smiling, sitting with me in the cafeteria, etc... Maybe she was waiting for me to show IOIs the same way I was waiting for her to show IOIs. I don't know.

    And since I have a crush on her, I would like to try once again, because if I do not, I will regret not trying, you still think it is better to forget about it? If she says NO, at least I will have tried.

    Quote Originally Posted by ThePrep View Post
    Don't worry dude!!! I'd say move on from this one, if she's literally not giving any IOI''s then savr your game for better Targets!! remember, its her loss, not yours....

    what game you spit at the HB8 in the bar?
    I had noticed that one of the 2 HB8s had lost her earring. Then when I saw them again I asked her if she had found it, and she answered Yes, it had fallen on her scarf. I asked where they were from, and one of them said " Guess". I guessed it wrong. Then I asked what they study and I kept asking about their major, until one of them said she did not want to talk about university at that moment. Then afterwards they asked me to let them talk alone.

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Quote Originally Posted by Red_Key View Post
    Yeah, she did not show me IOIs the last day. BUT I am pretty sure she was interested in me at some point! And maybe she still is. Looking at me smiling, sitting with me in the cafeteria, etc... Maybe she was waiting for me to show IOIs the same way I was waiting for her to show IOIs. I don't know.

    And since I have a crush on her, I would like to try once again, because if I do not, I will regret not trying, you still think it is better to forget about it? If she says NO, at least I will have tried.



    I had noticed that one of the 2 HB8s had lost her earring. Then when I saw them again I asked her if she had found it, and she answered Yes, it had fallen on her scarf. I asked where they were from, and one of them said " Guess". I guessed it wrong. Then I asked what they study and I kept asking about their major, until one of them said she did not want to talk about university at that moment. Then afterwards they asked me to let them talk alone.

    Try one more time if you want son!!! def better than regretting it!! i'd say just come and out with a direct approach as you now have enough rapport to do so.....maybe initiate some more kino with her to raise the sexual tension....?

    With the HB8 and other girls in the future, try not to ask questions, speak in statements; it presents you as more of a leader in the convo and as a alpha male!!
    the earring opener you used was great and from their you should go down the "fshion" route.....girls LOVE talking about their own style and its the perfect compliment you can throw at them....things like noticing their colour coordination or accessories.....trus t me, they'll immediatly kino you!!!!

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    I'm in a similar situation as well Key.
    I want to go out with this girl in class sometime, I talked to her like twice. I noticed her looking at me a bit durring class, not a lot but looking over, i can kind of feel she wants to talk to me last class (maybe on her period or something?)
    I usually sit a couple seats away and the only time we would get to talk really right now is during break, any ideas for continuing.
    I am not necessarily new at pua, i know some routes i can take it i was just looking to see what the pua's on here would go about it.
    Last edited by dirk diggler; 06-03-2011 at 10:51 PM.

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    first thing you'd need to do is go over, sit next to her and just initiate some conversation which can a)connect with common ground and b) make her laugh...after this you're on her radar and can escalate kino as applicable....sounds cold and calculate lol but thats coz thats the mindset you'd need!!


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