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    Default Asking her out

    Hello,

    I am interested in this cute classmate. I have talked to her only thrice before. I would like to be able to get something from her: phone number, email address, or ask her out this week. Because it is the last week of classes.

    When going to class. Should I go early, sit somewhere and expect her to sit next to me? Or should I arrive after her, and go and sit next to her?

    If I manage to talk to her, should I ask her out? Or should I ask for her phone number first?

    But before asking her out or getting her number, is there any routine that I could use on her to get her interested in me?

    Thanks a lot!
    Last edited by Red_Key; 08-08-2011 at 02:58 PM.

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    I'd go later, that way, even if her friend is wit her, just go up to both of them at some point, and charm them both!! try to connect with him mostly though, taking that obstacle out of your way!!! if she sees you're a hit wit her friend, you rep higher status in her eyes!!!

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Quote Originally Posted by ThePrep View Post
    I'd go later, that way, even if her friend is wit her, just go up to both of them at some point, and charm them both!! try to connect with him mostly though, taking that obstacle out of your way!!! if she sees you're a hit wit her friend, you rep higher status in her eyes!!!
    OK, I sat with them.

    I am thinking about asking her to talk to me in private. Than I tell her that I am gay and that I like her friend. Is it too weird? Afterwards I tell her that it was just a joke, and In fact I only wanted to talk to her alone, and that is the reason I said that weird story.

    Do you have any other ideas on cool stories or routines that I can use to get her attention. I think this "I'm gay" routine might backfire...
    Last edited by Red_Key; 08-11-2011 at 11:25 AM.

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    LMAO, Don't do that . It's one thing to tell her you're gay but to say you like her friend. That wont end well. Talk to her and neg her a little, find some kind of common intrest ! when you do right when you're about to go seperate ways as a last thought kind of thing say oh hey, let me get you're number so i can call you next time i (your common intrest) .. for example if you guys both like golfing you can say and i'll call you next time i'm going golfing.

    Good Gaming my friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brandonc2 View Post
    LMAO, Don't do that . It's one thing to tell her you're gay but to say you like her friend. That wont end well. Talk to her and neg her a little, find some kind of common intrest ! when you do right when you're about to go seperate ways as a last thought kind of thing say oh hey, let me get you're number so i can call you next time i (your common intrest) .. for example if you guys both like golfing you can say and i'll call you next time i'm going golfing.

    Good Gaming my friend.

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    lol agreed!!! the gay thing would only really work if you had a real ballsy and laid back way of doing it, you'd have to laugh it off majorly and hope she sees it as original rather than in a creepy way!!

    the way i see it, the constant phone use in front of you, was more of an attention seeking move!! whether she likes you yet or not, no girl wants to be ignored by a guy!! she was prob thinking you were ignoring her and thinking why you weren't trying to game her (especially if she thinks you're into her, and girls have an uncanny 6th sense bout this kinda thing)

    i normally go by the "rule of 3".....
    think of in 3 stages, what you just did works as stage 1, getting on her radar without really directly making a move.....think of it like the acknowledgement; she knows you're not a stranger and and potential
    stage 2 works exactly the same was the next time you see them, but this time do as Brandon suggested and neg her a few time, wit the slight compliment thrown in!! if you can use some self-effacing humour or inclusive humour that gets both the guy and girl laughing, then hit wit the standard neg (eg....."hey you're nose wrinkles up when you laugh...kinda weird......") the key is keep it playful and for a bonus score, get the guy to join you in negging her, but you MUST slip a slight compliment in AFTER the guy joins in wit you (eg....."but its cute though, laughing like you dont care what face you make....you must really find me funny " done right, this will show a sense of humour, confidence, and DHV as you're essentially showing her you can fit in with anyone guys or girls......this should put her at ease with you, but not force you into the friend zone......which where you begin the first steps of stage 3 and put in some light kino......

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThePrep View Post
    lol agreed!!! the gay thing would only really work if you had a real ballsy and laid back way of doing it, you'd have to laugh it off majorly and hope she sees it as original rather than in a creepy way!!

    the way i see it, the constant phone use in front of you, was more of an attention seeking move!! whether she likes you yet or not, no girl wants to be ignored by a guy!! she was prob thinking you were ignoring her and thinking why you weren't trying to game her (especially if she thinks you're into her, and girls have an uncanny 6th sense bout this kinda thing)

    i normally go by the "rule of 3".....
    think of in 3 stages, what you just did works as stage 1, getting on her radar without really directly making a move.....think of it like the acknowledgement; she knows you're not a stranger and and potential
    stage 2 works exactly the same was the next time you see them, but this time do as Brandon suggested and neg her a few time, wit the slight compliment thrown in!! if you can use some self-effacing humour or inclusive humour that gets both the guy and girl laughing, then hit wit the standard neg (eg....."hey you're nose wrinkles up when you laugh...kinda weird......") the key is keep it playful and for a bonus score, get the guy to join you in negging her, but you MUST slip a slight compliment in AFTER the guy joins in wit you (eg....."but its cute though, laughing like you dont care what face you make....you must really find me funny " done right, this will show a sense of humour, confidence, and DHV as you're essentially showing her you can fit in with anyone guys or girls......this should put her at ease with you, but not force you into the friend zone......which where you begin the first steps of stage 3 and put in some light kino......
    Well Said ! That light Kino part is crucial ... start with a thumb war...What is this girl on a scale form 1-10 : P ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThePrep View Post
    lol agreed!!! the gay thing would only really work if you had a real ballsy and laid back way of doing it, you'd have to laugh it off majorly and hope she sees it as original rather than in a creepy way!!

    the way i see it, the constant phone use in front of you, was more of an attention seeking move!! whether she likes you yet or not, no girl wants to be ignored by a guy!! she was prob thinking you were ignoring her and thinking why you weren't trying to game her (especially if she thinks you're into her, and girls have an uncanny 6th sense bout this kinda thing)

    i normally go by the "rule of 3".....
    think of in 3 stages, what you just did works as stage 1, getting on her radar without really directly making a move.....think of it like the acknowledgement; she knows you're not a stranger and and potential
    stage 2 works exactly the same was the next time you see them, but this time do as Brandon suggested and neg her a few time, wit the slight compliment thrown in!! if you can use some self-effacing humour or inclusive humour that gets both the guy and girl laughing, then hit wit the standard neg (eg....."hey you're nose wrinkles up when you laugh...kinda weird......") the key is keep it playful and for a bonus score, get the guy to join you in negging her, but you MUST slip a slight compliment in AFTER the guy joins in wit you (eg....."but its cute though, laughing like you dont care what face you make....you must really find me funny " done right, this will show a sense of humour, confidence, and DHV as you're essentially showing her you can fit in with anyone guys or girls......this should put her at ease with you, but not force you into the friend zone......which where you begin the first steps of stage 3 and put in some light kino......
    Thanks for the advice, guys.


    We had lunch together. Next time I see her, it will be the last class we have. So I need to act. I will try to neg her ("your nose wrinkles up...") I will also try to Kino escalate (touch her hands while she takes notes, pretending I want to see her notes, or/and maybe touch her nose right after I say that it wrinkles up).

    I don't know if it is too precipitated but I am thinking about K-closing her during the break of our next class. I will first invite her for a walk during the first break, and go to this secluded place, but do not do anything (just to make her feel safe with me). During the next break I invite to go for a walk, but I go to the secluded place and there I do the thumb war to kino escalate (does it actually work?) than I hold her hands, and touch her hair and if she accepts all this maintaining eye contact I K-close her (are there other IOIs that I can expect?). What do you guys think?

    Maybe I should not try to K-close at school and I should only ask her out (a bar or movie theater), e.g. "what are your plans for tomorrow?"? Someone suggested to find a common interest and invite her to do it, but I don't know if I will find a common interest.

    To answer Brandon's question. I would rate her 9/10, but I am biased because I have a crush on her.

    thanks guys!
    Last edited by Red_Key; 08-08-2011 at 03:01 PM.

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    Good move dude!!! I bet the not speaking to her while she was on the phone the first time really bugged her, so she made the first move coming over to you for lunch!!!

    The Kino wit thumb wars and nose touching is perfect for Stage 3 and your last class. Do the whole private walk during the breaks......a perfect Kino thing for that could be as you walk out of class, say "you wanna go somewhere cool?" she'll prob say "yeah", then hold up a fist, with the pinkie sticking out and say "do this". when she does, link your pinkie round hers and lead her to wherever you wanna take her!! I do it all the time and girls love it, keep eye contact as you do it and she'll start smiling and giggling!!

    Personally, i wouldn't K close at school!! use the private walks to find some common ground and then you MUST set up a dtae OUTSIDE school!!! This is crucial, coz as much as she may like you, you need to differentiate yourself from school with her. she needs to be with you alone somewhere else, making a concious decision to spend time just with you. You might think she's already done this, but trust me, it makes sooooo much more difference for her, sub consciously, to know she has chosen to g somewhere with you, rather than just bump into you at school (where she has to be)
    Once on that date.....thats where you can K close!!

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    Default Re: Asking her out

    Red_Key,

    I wasn't a student when I got into Pickup, but I used to sit in on my friend's university classes specifically to meet and pull college girls and this is a super basic formula for success:

    1. Walk up to her and begin a normal conversation. Ask her questions about herself, her hobbies, where she's from etc.

    2. Toward the end of class, or on your way out of class, suggest that you meet up some time. Its as simple as that. Don't do it in private, don't ask if she's in a relationship, just tell her that you two should hang out.

    3. You can then hand her your phone at which point she'll know to put her number in, OR you can simply get her Facebook.

    4. Text or Facebook her the very next day and pitch the meetup. Shoot primarily for group settings. Parties and Charitable College events are great venues. During the first meetup is when you can begin to game her.

    That isn't Game that's called being a socially adept human being :]. See where Im going with this?
    The fact that you're still contemplating how to approach and ask her out gives me the indicator that you don't currently have the confidence to actually chat her up and engage in a normal conversation with her. Simple is Sexy. Don't over complicate it. Dont worry about weather or not she's interested in you. Start with simple conversation and through repetition your confidence will increase dramatically. Then mix in your stories and routines later on.
    Last edited by Kors; 05-27-2011 at 03:59 PM.

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    the thumb war and/or secret hand shake thing is just so she is used to touching you, it's a good way to start the kino off, that way you can escalate from there...and i'm going to have to agree with not trying to kiss close her. tell her to come with you on a walk, don't ask her. and when you're walking be cool and casual, look at at her lips every now and then and make her wonder what it would be like to kiss you.if you start to get some little IOI's run this test and it will show if she's ready to kiss you, i've done this before it works every time. if you come across any kind of picture of a fat girl or a dog or really any picture, point at it and say look its your brother or sister or mom or something, keep pointing at it and say things like same nose then point at her nose and back at the picture like your making sure. if she grabs your hand and pulls it down softly shes escalating with you. when she does that hold her hand as she brings it down and face her, and say something like "you know it costs every time you touch me, and look her right in the eyes, and at her lips, Keep it kinda sexually tense. if shes looking at your lips as your close to her and really starring at you grab her other hand and your free to land a kiss. No i'm not a genius but i'm pretty damn close


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