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    AZPUAGuy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need honest advice from someone whos been in my shoes.

    So I have went out with this girl for a while, like 7-8 times. The usual hot tub/ lots of kino "dates" i guess. One night was at a club where we danced and grinded for hours.

    We have agreed that we are FWB, for now. We do lots of kino, and sometimes gets pretty crazy, licking her upper leg, kissing neck, lickin belly button ring, having her lick my nipple haha, although nothing X rated. We have talked and joked about sex a ton, including stuff like her making a gargling noise and then I joke about her gargling my stuff haha, well, not that direct but she got the picture. So yeah all kinds of sh1t, everything besides anything sexual like oral, etc...only kissing.

    Here is where I am puzzled. We get really close a bunch of times during our times together, like with our foreheads and noses touching, stuff like that, and she wont kiss, she turns after a few seconds. When we kiss, a few time a night, its literally just a kiss, no making out. Then we were talking about our trip were making to a 5-star resort in less then 2 weeks. We know sex is bound to happen, she was saying its our goal to get a noise complaint and that we need to make good use of our king bed, but tonight she said "hey when we go u wanna leave to the club for a few hours?" I was thinking to myself "girl, I want my moneys worth for this damn room fee, and although i love hanging out with you and your a awesome girl, your passion and fun isnt enough right now, i havent even seen you naked for petes sake!" lol but of course I didnt say that.

    So all this sexual talk and kino, but nothings going down...

    I am going to say what I am going to do to try straighten this out and you guys tell me if i am off track or not.

    So i am going to text her tomorrow when im on vaca, and say: "Hey ive been thinking lately about you and I know we've talked a little, but I havent really asked you about your feelings on our whole situation. I dont know if your hesitating with me and if you are, why. I don't want to hurt your feelings at all, but I cant get serious yet. Of course, down the road, it could get to that point and that would be great, but I just care about you and want to know if our feelings are mutual and if they arent, how you really feel. I know I have been "feel-y" a bit, and want to know how you feel about that, if I am being too crazy or if i'm being too boring haha. I enjoy hanging out with you, your a really genuine girl, and you know how to have fun, and girls like you are hard to find in today's society. Lets get this figured out."

    I dont want to make it sound like I am coming off as a "friend" and I am not really worried I am, because of what we have done and talked about, but just to be sure.

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    Default Re: Need honest advice from someone whos been in my shoes.

    Did you ever tryed f-close her ? If you did not than you still don't know if she is in for it .


    I think you are just maybe overreacting. If she texted you that you should hit a club it is best that you reply : '' I don't think so - i have other plans for us . '' ,
    And rephrase it cuz i'm not native english speaker . And make some plans, something that you can do alone and it's fun (paintball or whatever) . But don't tell her what, surprise her.



    If you decide to text her like you said -->
    I wouldn't text her like that, it would be better maybe if you done something like that in person. When you text she can always - not reply, reply after a day saying she can't go on a trip or something. Better to do this in person so she can't run away from the answer. And maybe insted of ''how do you feel about me'' you should say how do you feel about us making out etc. ''

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    Default Re: Need honest advice from someone whos been in my shoes.

    I wouldn't text her that, even if she wants sex she will not come out and say it. It sounds like your facing some last minute resistance. Try this. When your alone, preferably in the hotel room, tell her to come here. Look her in the eye and motion with your finger to come closer. Hold eye contact the entire time. You want her right up against you. If she tries to give you a kiss or say something stop her by placing your index finger on her lips. Say "Tell me...(pause)... what is the first thing you'd say....(pause)....af ter I kiss you. If she says I don't know reply with "lets find out" and make out with her. If she pulls away or says something negative freeze her out. I'd make out and kiss her neck for about 5 minutes. She should take her clothes off by then, if not, you'll have to start, but slowly. Inch by inch... If she says your not having sex agree with your, and tell her your just exploring her body with your tounge, nothing more. Eventually it will lead to sex, if not freeze her out for 10 min, and try again.Also, search the forum on how to deal with LMR.


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