so i met this girl a while back in one of my summer classes. we eventually started talking and hit it off with some subtle flirting. I live in california and she goes to school in the midwest but is originally from here. she comes back here for her breaks and such. long story short we ended up hooking up on one of her breaks and last time i saw her we had sex. everything is going great with this girl. she knows what she is getting into with me and knows that i am not down for a long distance relationship. she seems to want the same thing as me so we established a friends with benefits kind of relationship. she is back now for the summer and her and i have hooked up three times already, but we have yet to have sex again this summer. the situations are always poor and the one time we could have done something, she was on her period. i know, this sounds like a pretty good situation and i shouldnt be complaining. the problem is that i think i might be starting to actually like her and i want to spend more time with her. well that and i also want to actually have sex with her as opposed to just making out and the occasional handjob. ive been pretty good about not coming off as clingy at all. so far she has always been down to hang out, but she rarely initiates any conversations herself. shes a fun girl and is usually down for anything. the thing is that she keeps telling me that she is pretty bored and doesnt really have anything to do with her day now that shes home. should i take this as a sign that she wants to hang out more? if so, should i act on my own desires and invite her over more often, or should i continue to take several day breaks between seeing her? i really want to hang out with her more, but i am afraid that if i constantly ask her to hang out she will think that im becoming attached and that i do not have anything/anyone else to do in my life. at the same time though, i get the feeling that she is trying to do the exact same thing with me in the sense that she is also trying not to be clingy. i could be wrong though. what do you guys think? for example, i will be taking her to a party this friday with me, but im also free pretty much all day on thursday and i would love to spend it with her. should i hang out with her both consecutive days?