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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    Quote Originally Posted by KennyPowers View Post
    You bring up some great points Nik
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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    Like I said, all you need to do is to know how to not look creepy on the dance floor. Other than that, go out and pretend to have fun, and you can gain social status.

    The only other type of dancing is when you are sexually escalating with a woman. In my experience, that type of dancing is obvious: Just do stuff that involves touching, and actions which mimic sex.

    Anything else, one again in my experience, doesn't significantly boost my ability to pick up women, and since I don't enjoy dancing, there is no up side.

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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    I couldn't agree more Nik, I also would like to add that a lot of girls that you may meet at a night club could very well be out for a girls night, bachelorette party, or some situation that allows them to go out whereas they normally might not be able to. What does this mean? They probably don't know how to dance either, but they get a few drinks in them, go out on the dance floor and shake their ass so they can say they got "crazy" and received attention from all of their horny guys. Many guys are too busy stairing at their ass moving to look at their rest of their body language. A lot of girls are uncomfortable and shy and deathly afraid if THEY look stupid dancing. I do know how to dance, (hip hop) and I haved noticed after a while that it has actually been a crutch for me.
    1) A man needs to allow the woman to be the better dancer. Period. Let her feel sexy, and that she has all the moves. Let her feel like she is the queen of the room.
    2) Trolling the dance floor trying to get a girl to shake her ass on you does not get you phone numbers - Sarging gets you phone numbers.

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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

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    I couldn't agree more Nik...
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    1) A man needs to allow the woman to be the better dancer. Period. Let her feel sexy, and that she has all the moves. Let her feel like she is the queen of the room.
    If you are going to dance, lead her. Done properly, this signals her that she is sexy becasue of you. Make her the queen of the room, for that moment.

    No different than having a discussion or engaging in any other activity. This is why dancing, in itself, is neither great nor terrible. The man makes the moment.
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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    Nik does bring up some very valid points. And, for the most part I agree with his entire post. My caveat is simply that men can gain a tremendous amount of confidence by learning a few decent dance steps and keeping them available for the right opportunity. There is a tremendous amount of strength and confidence to be gained from knowing that you can take a girl to the floor, or pick her up on a dance floor, and that you have the ability to move without feeling / looking like a clown. Even if you don't pick her up, other women are looking and they will notice a guy who looks good dancing. It is always good for DHV.

    That said, I wouldn't invest a ton of time or money into it--unless I really liked it. Dancing is a tool, like anything else in your arsenal. You don't have to be a master carpenter to be able to swing a hammer without looking like a fool.

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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    Thank you, TangoFoxtrot! No caveat necessary.
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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    Any time, Nik. Happy hunting out there in the heartland. I do love those farmers' daughters!!

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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    I think the answer to the OP can be summarized in these simple words

    GUYS JUST WANT TO GRIND ON A HOT GIRL'S ASS, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT DANCING!

    That's about 99% of men (younger men). I used to be this way too until recently. I was at a bar and there came this guy and his girl and they started dancing. They weren't grinding they were doing real dancing (I have no idea what style it was maybe swing or something). Everyone and every girl was looking at them and were looking at him with those female eyes of curiosity and of "i want him!." They had another female friend in their group and he danced with her too, just extended his hand and she got on the dance floor. At that moment it hit me that I needed to learn how to dance. So i could do that too just extend my hand and bring a girl to the dance floor and do some dancing.

    So this week i'll be going to my first dance class.
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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    [quote=nik;24516]Thank you!



    this signals her that she is sexy becasue of you. quote]

    Actually, You do make a very valid point Nik. It is one thing that is so amazing about these forums, there are so many ways to look at any given topic. I am assuming that we are talking about non experienced male dancers. I feel (and can very easily be proven mistaken) that it is hard enough for a male to learn to get over approach anxiety, let alone approach and then lead the female, when he has two left feet. Instead of DHV he could very quickly DLV. This is why I think it's always best for a man to learn the two step and let the woman twirl around drunk as hell and having a good time. Once again, I am sure you will educate me and I am totally for everyone taking classes on everything they can get their hands on. I just think most men don't know how to dance nor lead. Perhaps you know a few simple tricks?
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    Default Re: Advice and opinions on guys dancing

    Wow crazy thread. I know a little ballroom and latin. I can seriously do without the ballroom. The latin though is vertical sex. I can't just dance, I feel foolish and awkward and I'm a pretty confident guy. But latin, like salsa, if you learn that and you have the slightest bit of game you are not going home alone. I'm batting 1000 when going to latin nights at the bar and I learned the basic salsa steps at the bar. If you can grind, you can salsa, if you can salsa you've got a great tool in your arsenal. You can even use it just talking.
    When I go out with my female friends and they see a guy who can dance I'll quite often hear I bet he's good in bed. That guy already has a headstart. The funny part is he generally doesn't have a clue, but hey you don't want to learn a couple simple steps all I can say is thanks, more for me.
    I'm failing to see why it needs to be dancing or game. That's the impression I'm getting reading the board so far. Why not both? Why not use the assumption women have that men who can dance are good in bed to your advantage?
    Anyway, I'm brand new here, but that's my 2 cents worth and what my experience has been.

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