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    Default Need opinion ASAP

    So I like this girl, and I am pretty sure she likes me too. We just met this weekend and went on two dates while she was in town. However, we live far apart so we can really only see each other on the weekends. I invited her to do something this upcoming weekend and she said "ahh sorry I already have plans, that would have been lots of fun though."

    Where should I go from here? I want to set up another date, but I dont want to come across as needy. Please let me know what you guys think.

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    Default Re: Need opinion ASAP

    continue the talking to her ask her out again in a week or two if she keeps turnning you down then walk away there is alot of girls out their. waiting for your aproach ahahah

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    Default Re: Need opinion ASAP

    I ended up telling her "Well I am going to be in your area on these dates, lets get together and do something while I am in town" she then said "Sounds good!"

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    Default Re: Need opinion ASAP

    Seems like a good text. I have two pieces of advice I adhere to when setting up a date via text.

    1. I like to ask something along the lines of "what's your schedule like this week?" in advance. That way, she cannot respond with "I am busy Wednesday" because she will have already told me which days she is available. Then, when I propose the date, she will have no choice but to either accept or completely refuse (which lets me know she is simply not interested and I can move on with my life). This keeps you from being strung along indefinitely and having your time wasted.

    2. Try to have a cool date location in mind when you text. Rather than simply ask "want to meet up tomorrow?", you might try "there's an awesome coffee shop on the corner of 53rd/something, why don't we meet there around 2". This will make you seem more confident, as if you have no doubt that she wants to hang out.

    Again, I'm by no means a PUA, but I have definitely noticed better results (more dates happening, less flaking/bs) when I keep these things in mind.

    Best of luck

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    Default Re: Need opinion ASAP

    Jkwan23,

    You're on point man, I agree completely. In addition, when I pitch a meetup or a "date", 80% of the time I'll word the invitation in such a way that establishes the fact that Im going to go and do it by myself or with some other people anyways... Regardless of whether or not she joins me. In a lot of cases its almost as if inviting her to come along was an afterthought.

    Foxy if you're worried about coming across to needy. Try this.

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    I agree with Kors. If you invite her along then you look like you have a life outside of worrying about what she is doing. It also show that you have friends and that will bring up your value in her eyes.

    I recommend if you have any girl friends to bring them with. When I hang out with a girl I like I try to get a mixed group because it puts a girl at ease showing that both guys and girls think you are cool.

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    Im probably going to call her and tell her that my buddy and I are going to be in town, and that she should bring her friends along too.


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