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    Default I totally messed up!!!

    Ok I think I've totally messed up.

    Met an HB8 via an online dating site. Date one: Great connection,lots of laughing,kino,neggin g. Went really well. Date two: More of the same,this time kissed closed. Date three: Lunch date(we work close by to each other) again,awesome,but we met up after work and ended up making out for a little bit.

    Unfortunately,making out seemed to be my kryptonite. I ended up breaking all the texting rules and realized too late that I am obviously DLV. I farked up!!

    But I'm a bit confused,if I text her at night I get no answer,but in the morning she'll text me and reply to whatever text I left. But at this point, I seriously think she is going to flake out on date 4.

    I could really use advice and quick since date 4 is tomorrow!!!! What should I do you guys?
    Help is needed!!!! And FAST!!!!

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Not sure I follow where you messed up bro, explain the text on how you dlv'd yourself cuz the dates seem to be great, kiss closed as well so you might just be over analyzing the situation, i do that a lot myself sometimes. If I were you I'd just play it cool as if nothin bad happened at all and just bring my A game for date 4 or you could flake on her for tommorows date but i dont know. I've found through trial and error that if your game is tight enough, you can get away with a mistake here and there sometimes

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Thanks for the reply man! I do tend to over analyze a bit.

    Week one....I barely texted her at all.
    Week two....a little bit here and there
    Week three....I could tell she was much more comfortable with me...so she texted a lot more often.
    Week four....she flat out blew my phone up for two days(after making out) then I just backed off a bit here and there. But it soon turned into a daily thing all this week during the work day. But at night,no replies.

    I don't do any of the needy stuff I.e. Ask why she hasn't text me back, or what she's doing. My text game has been very tight. She's constantly qualifying herself after a few well played negs.

    I suppose I've become a little "text crazy" after making out,which I intend to ease back on after date 4. I suppose the texting a lot this week had me thinking I was DLV-ing myself.

    I was pretty much planning to do just that,bring the A game as usual and think nothing of it for tomorrow.

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Yeah man you're golden, have fun tommorow

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Tell us how it went.

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Ok,texted her a few minutes ago...I think she may be "seeding" an "I'm tired" escape.

    Me: morning! So meet up about 5:30 at your j-o-b. Sound good?

    Her: yup! I get out at 5:30 so you gotta give me a bit to pretty up. Hardly got any sleep,was up late watching tv.

    Me: aright. Sounds like a plan. Have a good day ; )

    Her: you too. Thanks. It's gonna be a long one!

    Now,maybe I am over thinking,but I don't really think so. I'm pretty certain these are seeds for the "I'm tired,been a long day,I should go" escape.

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Sounds to me like you are over thinking every word she says...

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    Sounds to me like you are over thinking every word she says...
    Agreed.

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    Default Re: I totally messed up!!!

    Yup....I totally over thought this stuff completely.

    Was in a relationship for the past 5 years and I'm trying to re-learn all this dating stuff.

    So,we never even went out on a date. We skipped it to go straight to her place,sipped some whiskey and did some heavy duty making out till 4:30 in the morning. I could have f-closed when we woke up,but I've decided to increase the sexual tension by not going that far. After last night, I'm sure she's already wondering when she'll see me next.

    At this point, all that over thinking stuff is over with. She's obviously digging me. I've already reduced the amount of texts sent today,to keep her sexy ass from being able to predict what I'll do next. Keep her off-balance,she told me all about how she gets hit on all the time and all these cats fall in love with her, so I neg her about being a delusional crazy person and get good laughs. She's certainly used to guys "sweating" her. And doing the opposite of those dudes will obviously work to my advantage.

    This forum has been a fantastic resource to me for the past few weeks! The knowledge and input I have learned here has been extremely helpful,and I am certain I will continue to use.

    Thanks for helping me get my head on straight guys!!!
    Last edited by Ducktaylors; 06-04-2011 at 06:46 PM.

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