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    Skillmatic is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Am I on the right path?

    Hey guys I've been working on my identity for the past 5 months. Trying new things that I love doing first and then see how it benefits me in pick up. There wasn't many things i did besides playing football so i wanted to try new things in my life that i would fall in love doing. Ok here's the two things I've mentioned that I've been doing since 2011.

    1) Dancing since Jan. Learning most styles*
    2) Capoeira as a type of martial arts for a month now.*

    Ok now am thinking what other things I want to pursue in my life that I've always wanted to do but never got on about it.

    Now years ago I used to write songs in my spare time but I didn't do anything with it. My friend who spends his spare time as a hip-hop music producer has been making beats for the past 5+ years. However since he had a son 2 years ago he stopped making beats since then.*

    He's good at making beats and has had a producer over in NYC giving him a shout out all the to Scotland lol. we both have been maga busy for the past few years so haven't had anytime to rekindle our beats.*

    However he called me last week and told me it's time to get deadly serious about this and let's just go for it. I felt the exact same. I've got over 30+ songs written just laying there in my room so might as well put them to good use.

    Now I don't want to become a full time 24/7 dedicated song writer (depending how much Royalties I would get lol) I still want to pursue my dancing and my capoeira. So basically am busy as hell now. Which is good i guess because that means the girls would be qualifying themselves enough to catch my attention due to my busy schedule because of my DHV spikes I will plant in their minds. This does not mean I will say yes to the first girl I talk to, at the end of the day if I want to attract a girl into my life and I have to make her qualify herself to me because I have value for her then I want a very high value women in my life. So when I take her let's say to a salsa class then when I introduce her to my female dance buddies and my failed HB10 (who put me in the friendzone last month because I failed to kino escalate wit her) it should trigger the pre-selection switch in their heads esp if my girl is a high value HB10. Which should also trigger the jealously tension between myself and my failed HB10 because she now see's me with a beautiful high value women in my life thanx to my pre-selection which increases my social proof.

    So basically my question is, is being a songwriter a good DHV?

    Now this does not mean I go about opening sets on asking their opinions on my songs. I don't want to start playing that game because it's too cheesy and she would know why am asking her a mile away. And this not mean am going to write for Jay-Z, 50 cent or usher now. Me and my friend's target would be to help up and coming artists and establish them, as the opportunities in that area would be great.

    I will have my wingmen throw in an accomplishment intro that am a songwriter or a dancer/performer because it would sound more believable coming from my wingmen.

    Would being a songwriter trigger an attraction switch in a girl?

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Am I on the right path?

    Yes! Big DHV! Especially if you're good or know some famous people. I wouldn't use it because I may get gold digged lol

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Am I on the right path?

    the thing with "making" your personality is that your true self will eventually come out and it may backfire, its good to learn new skills.. but if your truly a nice guy, you cna flip the switch to be a jerk, because it'll be very scripted.. simply you were not NATURAL to be that way ...

    I'm a songwriter.. it's not really a higher value, but it's a sweet thing that can provide girls to give you an opportunity to prove your worthy of their hearts... because if you random write songs or rub songs if girls faces, it's like "WTF?".... pick your talents that you can use naturally.. maybe learn singing, so if a good song comes on and u can sing that's better than whipping out a guitar and jamming it....

    but hey! you may be able to pull it off...

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    Skillmatic is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Am I on the right path?

    These 3 things that I do dancing, capoeira and song writing are natural to me how do I know? Because the feedback I get when I do it which is joy. I feel am on track when am doing these 3 things. It inspires me. How do I know that? Because I don't need any motivation to do them. I don't have Monday morning blues, drooling Tuesday, Wednesday hump day, peak of the weak crap, thank god it's Friday and week freaking ends. To me everyday is I love what I do and I do what I love. And I feel that as long as am doing them 3 things. So it's nothing to do with impressing girls of trying to be something am not. Doing these 3 things feels natural to me.*

    So then the second step am trying to see is how can i DHV from the 3 things I love doing*


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