Hey guys I've been working on my identity for the past 5 months. Trying new things that I love doing first and then see how it benefits me in pick up. There wasn't many things i did besides playing football so i wanted to try new things in my life that i would fall in love doing. Ok here's the two things I've mentioned that I've been doing since 2011.
1) Dancing since Jan. Learning most styles*
2) Capoeira as a type of martial arts for a month now.*
Ok now am thinking what other things I want to pursue in my life that I've always wanted to do but never got on about it.
Now years ago I used to write songs in my spare time but I didn't do anything with it. My friend who spends his spare time as a hip-hop music producer has been making beats for the past 5+ years. However since he had a son 2 years ago he stopped making beats since then.*
He's good at making beats and has had a producer over in NYC giving him a shout out all the to Scotland lol. we both have been maga busy for the past few years so haven't had anytime to rekindle our beats.*
However he called me last week and told me it's time to get deadly serious about this and let's just go for it. I felt the exact same. I've got over 30+ songs written just laying there in my room so might as well put them to good use.
Now I don't want to become a full time 24/7 dedicated song writer (depending how much Royalties I would get lol) I still want to pursue my dancing and my capoeira. So basically am busy as hell now. Which is good i guess because that means the girls would be qualifying themselves enough to catch my attention due to my busy schedule because of my DHV spikes I will plant in their minds. This does not mean I will say yes to the first girl I talk to, at the end of the day if I want to attract a girl into my life and I have to make her qualify herself to me because I have value for her then I want a very high value women in my life. So when I take her let's say to a salsa class then when I introduce her to my female dance buddies and my failed HB10 (who put me in the friendzone last month because I failed to kino escalate wit her) it should trigger the pre-selection switch in their heads esp if my girl is a high value HB10. Which should also trigger the jealously tension between myself and my failed HB10 because she now see's me with a beautiful high value women in my life thanx to my pre-selection which increases my social proof.
So basically my question is, is being a songwriter a good DHV?
Now this does not mean I go about opening sets on asking their opinions on my songs. I don't want to start playing that game because it's too cheesy and she would know why am asking her a mile away. And this not mean am going to write for Jay-Z, 50 cent or usher now. Me and my friend's target would be to help up and coming artists and establish them, as the opportunities in that area would be great.
I will have my wingmen throw in an accomplishment intro that am a songwriter or a dancer/performer because it would sound more believable coming from my wingmen.
Would being a songwriter trigger an attraction switch in a girl?