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    Default Re: Number Close – room for improvement as no reply to 1st text

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    i personally dislike the "Let's Just Be Friends" because it could just put you into friends zone and continues to ignore you.. go bold... this is what I've done in the past in similar situations and have gotten me somewhere...

    "HB's name, we are all busy, but if I can write you a 100 character txt, you can at least acknowledge it. It's cool, next drink on u! date, time, place me and I'll be there! "
    I will not try to contest you successes with that line, it may have gotten you somewhere. What I do debate is this : That message is basically "negative reacting" to whatever she's doing to you. It shows you are pissed off because she didn't answer your message, no matter how hard you try to mask it with the latter part. Also, with the latter part, you give away your power and show your availability. You just don't do that.

    What the LJBF message ALWAYS conveys is willingness to walk away, acknowledging her qualities and "I don't and will not take your sh1t" type of attitude, not counting throwing her off. True, it may backfire on you ( my success rate with this is 11 out of 12, but the failure didn't respond to the message, she didn't say yes or no, so basically I've just moved on ), but this is high risk/high reward type of stuff and it'll get you there.
    Last edited by Sitfab; 07-07-2011 at 07:18 AM.

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    Default Re: Number Close – room for improvement as no reply to 1st text

    Quote Originally Posted by Jaz View Post
    Very true, I do have nothing to lose and I like the sound of that text. Though, as it would be my 3rd text after 2 unanswered texts already, even if she did reply would I not be demonstrating lower value?
    I will let the other two argue about what to send, but I wouldn't send anything. You said you met her at the gym. It is likely you will see her again, at the gym. That's when you make another move.

    What move you make depends on you and what you're willing to risk.

    Personally, I would call her out on it, but in a fun way.

    Samples:
    -What's wrong? Couldn't figure out how to imput your number correctly into my phone?
    -Don't kick my ass, but you suck when it comes to phones.
    -Hey! Haven't talked to you in a while. That's your fault...
    Don't stand around waiting for a response, let it fester.

    It may seem abrasive, and in many ways, it is; however, you can get away with a lot by showing you aren't going to put up with her crap in a good delivery.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Number Close – room for improvement as no reply to 1st text

    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    I will not try to contest you successes with that line, it may have gotten you somewhere. What I do debate is this : That message is basically "negative reacting" to whatever she's doing to you. It shows you are pissed off because she didn't answer your message, no matter how hard you try to mask it with the latter part. Also, with the latter part, you give away your power and show your availability. You just don't do that.

    What the LJBF message ALWAYS conveys is willingness to walk away, acknowledging her qualities and "I don't and will not take your sh1t" type of attitude, not counting throwing her off. True, it may backfire on you ( my success rate with this is 11 out of 12, but the failure didn't respond to the message, she didn't say yes or no, so basically I've just moved on ), but this is high risk/high reward type of stuff and it'll get you there.
    I’m pleased with the mini debate this thread has generated lol. I appreciate both answers but I tend to agree more with Sitfab’s logic, I would feel more comfortable and less needy using the LJBF line.

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    Default Re: Number Close – room for improvement as no reply to 1st text

    Quote Originally Posted by nik View Post
    I will let the other two argue about what to send, but I wouldn't send anything. You said you met her at the gym. It is likely you will see her again, at the gym. That's when you make another move.

    What move you make depends on you and what you're willing to risk.

    Personally, I would call her out on it, but in a fun way.

    Samples:
    -What's wrong? Couldn't figure out how to imput your number correctly into my phone?
    -Don't kick my ass, but you suck when it comes to phones.
    -Hey! Haven't talked to you in a while. That's your fault...
    Don't stand around waiting for a response, let it fester.

    It may seem abrasive, and in many ways, it is; however, you can get away with a lot by showing you aren't going to put up with her crap in a good delivery.
    I haven’t actually seen her again in the gym since but I like what you’re suggesting. Sure it will be useful for future situations.

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    Default Re: Number Close – room for improvement as no reply to 1st text

    Did u try the ljbf text yet? I hope that goes over well for u but if u still get no reply I'd just walk away and go have some fun with other women who are more interested in you. Maybe you'll see her at the gym again soon and can try to make another move but I wouldn't get to hung up over her.


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