Ok, first off sorry for the long message. This has been bugging me, and this seems like the best place to get answers from. Ok, my exgirlfriend and I were hooking up decently when I came back from college.
After a couple of months, she says tells me this guy from Scotland she's met is coming to town for 2 weeks and will be staying with her for 1. Her and he both have feelings for each other, they just talk through facebook. She tells me once he gets here that she doesn't know if she feels the same way as she used to about me and we should stop. After going to college, I'm aware of a way I act differently, that I didn't want to do in the first place. So I've gotten to stop. But when he was here, she didn't really talk to me and I didn't see her.
Now that he's gone, she's been really stressed out because they want to date, but he lives in Scotland....across the ocean. She told me that, and has said we're only friends, but I know her too well for that. Whenever we're actually together, I can tell without a doubt that she still has feelings for me. I think she knows that too. She's careful about being alone with me.
So anyways, its pretty much just a competition for her between me and the other guy. I think I have a leg up considering a live nearby, but I still take this seriously. How should I go about this?