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    pcguru111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Things going really well with girl and first and then suddenly not

    Hi again guys. I am just reporting back bc by chance, i meant this girl and i had to go to this swim camp thing today. Obviously, this environment isnt great for pickup stuff bc the two of us are always busy doing other stuff but we got talking afterward and we verbally flirted a lot and she laughed a ton at everything i said so i think this whole lets just be friends thing is bs bc she still has interest. I defs did a better job with kino too bc we sort of play fighted on and off the whole time. She even tried telling me that she was going to a movie with another guy which ended up being a complete lie, shes just going with a girlfriend and then we started joking about it and i could just tell that she actually does want to go to another movie with me sometime.

    So now im thinking i invite her on another date to the beach on monday as to prevent her thinking its a serious date but im just not sure how i should text her about this casually enough to make her rly want to go rather then get all nervous again and also make sure she doesnt think that im just trying to ask her out again when she told me that she didnt want to (even tho ik she's lying).

    What do u guys think i should text her?

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    Default Re: Things going really well with girl and first and then suddenly not

    Ok guys i just thought i'd give a quick update. I texted her and she said she would love to hang but she had family coming over this weekend and I was also busy most of the weekend so it didn't work out. However, it turns out that we both have to go to travel for a swim meet coming up with means i'll see her lots/ have lots of opportunity for talking to her and such. Do u guys think i should do what i've been doing while rly trying to physically escalate (while watching her body language of course, don't want her uncomfortable). Otherwise, do u guys have any other ideas/ pointers for me?

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    Default Re: Things going really well with girl and first and then suddenly not

    Well, you seem to be investing quite some time in watching her reactions and almost zero amount in you. True, you needed to escalate and so you did ( hope you haven't overdone it ). But focus on you. Be outside of your head and not trying to rationalize everything that's going on in the interaction/conversation between you two. This is a very important step that you have to master in the future.

    What I like to do when I'm seeing a girl for the first date is figure out an action plan for the date.

    For example :

    - knowing where we will go and what will we do ( usually she's aware for 50% of my plan...leaving some mystery here is great ).
    - run one or two routines on her ( it's better if you have your own routines, not just ones from forums and books )
    - one dhv story
    - tease her
    - ( if the case presents itself ) run some memorized lines for shit tests

    Be sure that if you state your hobbies, be very passionate when you talk about it.

    This is basically my plan. Quite simple, yet effective. 80% of the attraction comes from 20% of the time spent on the date. So, naturally, only 20% of game is run on the date, the rest...just having fun and not give a shit.

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    Default Re: Things going really well with girl and first and then suddenly not

    Ok guys so i just got back and got to spend a bit of time with this girl. Our interactions went well and at times it seems like she's interested but she will occasionally recoil and she seems not so interested. Also, her texts which used to be fast and well fleshed out are short or non existent sometimes and other times she texts me like she used to. So its sort of a mixed signals type deal. Its like she wants to be in a relationship but the realist part of her just thinks it will cause her stress. Is there anything i can do to ease this?

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    Default Re: Things going really well with girl and first and then suddenly not

    Next time you get to bring her out... just go to a quiet beach or something... hold her hand as you walk (no grabbing!) and find a place to sit and chat serious issues about her (remember about her and not you!) and slowly kiss her DEEPLY. You had already done the first level. I'm just educating you on the next.

    If all else fails... get a life! There are so many more out there, why worry over one? This part I'm saying about "why bother" will actually make u more confident in any relationship.

    cheers.


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