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    Default Unemployed game?? lol

    I'll be honest. There's approach excitement. Then there's added stress.

    We hear about dudes all the time with chicks and no jobs. lol I just don't feel comfortable in my own skin knowing that. Can it be overcome or am I doing right putting first other areas??

    I'm trying to appease both. I've had a few approaches where what do I do comes up. arghh the economy

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    Default Re: Unemployed game?? lol

    What do you enjoy doing most... ?

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    Default Re: Unemployed game?? lol

    I get your point. I'm just saying certain life issues give you the stigma or make it seem a step harder.

    Ofcourse, if you can overcome being a Federline (whoever) more power to ya. I'm trying to work on it, if we can.

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    Default Re: Unemployed game?? lol

    I don't know about you guys, but this is an issue that needs to be addressed.

    Depending on your angle, not having a job is a serious blow to one's ego ( and wallet, obviously ). True, you can have fun regardless of your job status. But it will show. You may stack potent stuff after potent stuff, in the end the thought of you not having a job is going to get you at some point or another ( depending if you're still with the girl you initially approached or with another ).

    The fact of the matter is you should be good with money while dating right off the bat. It seemingly hasn't got anything to do with dating, but if you're looking for long-term stuff, it'll show. You'll ooze of insecurity ( or at least mild discomfort ) at the mere thought of having no money to go out with, even if that isn't the case.

    In short, it'll affect your state...to some extent.

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    Default Re: Unemployed game?? lol

    great question op

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    Default Re: Unemployed game?? lol

    Sitfab is definitely right, this is something that needs to be addressed. In our society what you do is directly related to who you are so you're probably questioning your self-worth whether you know it or not. I've been there myself. The main thing to do right now (I'm assuming you just got laid off recently?) is stick to a schedule. Do one thing a day. It's that simple. It's really related more to inner game and having self-confidence. Like mentioned earlier, it will ooze if you open up emotionally.

    I faced the issue of trying to find a job and ended up getting invited to do crap that was really useless. My game dropped substantially. I confronted the issue and found what I wanted to do and as long as I do one thing a day in order to complete that goal I've found that I have the self-confidence needed for open gaming. If it helps I noticed that I had a lot of free time so if you can afford it (get a part time job maybe just to cover your necessities) do something you've always wanted to accomplish. I started training in muay thai when this happened and am planning to compete in the coming months and yeah, it's a pretty sweet thing to mention while gaming now. If the topic of what do you do comes up I don't say I'm unemployed or are just part time, I just say I'm training to compete in kickboxing. Hope this helps

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    Default Re: Unemployed game?? lol

    At the time, yes, I was unemployed, now I'm working on my own business, so now it's all great.

    You can tackle this unemployment issue pretty elegantly or find subtle yet extremely effective ways around it that could also come off as DHV.


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