I urgently need an expert opinion on my case.
I have never studied any online or phone game – but have always had great game success online on chat rooms – I can engage women easily and then get their phone numbers.
Then, I am able - on the very first phone call - to have virtual sex with them and have the woman orgasm. I have done that many times and I always marvel at how can I do that so effortlessly. Some women even develop passionate love for me out of phone calls alone.
In real life, however, things are much different.
Recently, I decided to meet a woman who fell in love with me over the phone – a very nice and pretty 32 year old woman.
However, when I met her, she was somewhat surprised and, upon seeing me, immediately told me the following:
- Wow, I thought you were a jerk, and now I can see you are a nice guy!
- You are tall, you look handsome, elegant, impressive, and you appear to be a responsible citizen.
- Your voice is different from the one over the phone. Your voice is indeed very different.
Now, this came from a pretty woman, very much romantic, whose idea was to find a husband to have a family (so she had told me over the phone). Apparently she wanted some guy like me, but clearly was kind of disappointed upon seeing me.
Puzzling to me!
I immediately grabbed her, kissed her on the lips, but she was kind of trying to slow down the interaction a bit. Why? I had already virtually fucked her a lot, and knew all her sexual fantasies…She had opened herself completely to me over the phone! Why the brakes?
That was one of the few times that I decided to meet a woman I got online – the other two I met in the past, boy, I could not even kiss them.
But they said nothing – this one at least did say something.
Yes, she said those words – on one side, sort of illuminating, but, on the other side, they kept me wondering – what did I do wrong?
What can I do to transfer the success I have online to real life, when I decide to meet them?
What is going on? I am very, very much frustrated by all of this.