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  1. #1
    Phone_Ninja is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Cool Good on the phone, bad in real life

    Hi guys,

    I urgently need an expert opinion on my case.

    I have never studied any online or phone game – but have always had great game success online on chat rooms – I can engage women easily and then get their phone numbers.
    Then, I am able - on the very first phone call - to have virtual sex with them and have the woman orgasm. I have done that many times and I always marvel at how can I do that so effortlessly. Some women even develop passionate love for me out of phone calls alone.

    In real life, however, things are much different.

    Recently, I decided to meet a woman who fell in love with me over the phone – a very nice and pretty 32 year old woman.
    However, when I met her, she was somewhat surprised and, upon seeing me, immediately told me the following:

    - Wow, I thought you were a jerk, and now I can see you are a nice guy!
    - You are tall, you look handsome, elegant, impressive, and you appear to be a responsible citizen.
    - Your voice is different from the one over the phone. Your voice is indeed very different.

    Now, this came from a pretty woman, very much romantic, whose idea was to find a husband to have a family (so she had told me over the phone). Apparently she wanted some guy like me, but clearly was kind of disappointed upon seeing me.

    Puzzling to me!

    I immediately grabbed her, kissed her on the lips, but she was kind of trying to slow down the interaction a bit. Why? I had already virtually fucked her a lot, and knew all her sexual fantasies…She had opened herself completely to me over the phone! Why the brakes?

    That was one of the few times that I decided to meet a woman I got online – the other two I met in the past, boy, I could not even kiss them.

    But they said nothing – this one at least did say something.

    Yes, she said those words – on one side, sort of illuminating, but, on the other side, they kept me wondering – what did I do wrong?

    What can I do to transfer the success I have online to real life, when I decide to meet them?

    Help!!

    What is going on? I am very, very much frustrated by all of this.

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    steve456 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Good on the phone, bad in real life

    You my friend are a Facebook...texting ...faker.

    Donald trump, Oprah, Kat Williams, and John McCain are all the same on the phone as they are in person. Trust me. I know personally, two of them. Why are you not the same? Why are the women not the same? Keyboard jockeying is the problem. Fake personalities over the internet is not translating into REALITY b/c neither party was being REAL. You aren't that pimp in person and she aint a dirty sl*t. If that was the case you both would have had a natural connection b/c it was real. Side note: One must also talk mainly about non-sexual things that ARE REAL when getting ready to meet. This stops these things from happening. Because when the mask comes off and you have to be real and have a conversation......HOW DO YOU GO BACKWARDS!!!!!??? You can't. The fantasy is over...the trance is over and she's really a scared weirdo that has pseudo sex on-line with strangers.

    Youre failing b/c one or both or you is a faker. Who the f'ck orgasms with strangers over the internet who actually gets laid in person? Not many as oppose to the number of people on-line. I did it once. It was boring and NOT REAL. Stop the Demolition Man Shyt and go outside into the REAL WORLD and meet a fine woman...get to know her...them screw her brains out for REAL



    with luv
    -Steve456
    Last edited by steve456; 07-03-2011 at 10:48 PM. Reason: typo

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    Phone_Ninja is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Good on the phone, bad in real life

    Dear Steve456,

    Thanks for the reply.

    However, I must add that I do not have a facebook. I always pick women on chat rooms.

    I do not see myself as a fake. Over the phone, I am me – and I am not aware of any changes on myself due to the fact that I am typing or talking over the phone. I am even considering recording myself over the phone to try to understand what is going on.

    Your advice is not what I am looking for: I do not want to stop something that I am good at; to start from scratch on something that I am bad at.

    I am looking for a bridge, from the phone call to a person to person interaction.

    So, what I am looking for is some insight on what is really happening.

    When women see me, they instantly seem disappointed with the fact that I am not the jerk they thought I was. Yes, that is exactly what the latest one told me, that I was not “the jerk she thought I was”. She did use the word jerk, can you believe? She said that I looked too nice, tall, clean and dressed like a responsible citizen. And started to cool off.

    This judgment is passed on me by women I gamed over the phone, in a few seconds after they meet me, after they take a look at me.

    As I said, I am looking for a bridge, from the phone call to a person to person interaction.

    My hope in writing to this forum was to have someone give me an insight on what I have to do with my appearance, manners, voice, whatever, in order for me to stop looking like a nice guy and start looking like a jerk!

    Or to start looking like someone in the know!

    Or to start looking like someone who gets it!

    Or, better, to start looking like the woman’s walking fantasy!

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    Default Re: Good on the phone, bad in real life

    Hi, I signed up just so I could request people add more replies to Phone Ninja's situation because this is very similar to what I'm experiencing. Steve's effort to participate was appreciated but his reply was off the mark.

    Phone Ninja and I need your help please!


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