the wingman is short, fat, not so charming, has divergent social circles and probably isn't in the proper emotional condition to hit on women. Furthermore I don't care about going out as said in the first post, I just do things on the side for sport, to pass time and hopefully gain friends along the way.
at this point I am collecting myself and moving on. I've got a number of "soft relationships" concurrently going on. I care about the girls I'm talking to, but they're all aware that I don't want anything more than friendship and there is nothing physical.
In the end:
no significant explicit monetary loss.
somewhat lowered GPA but still tolerable
few small lost opportunities but nothing that cannot be recovered from.
lesson's learned in life.
Could've been worse.