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    Never posted here before and I'm looking for help. I'm not interested in the 'friend zone'. There are too many women to mess with it. I like it the way it is. I've only recently started flirting, seducing and chasing women. One of my friends saw my 'game' and she is REALLY trying to get my attention. We've always been friendly and I want it to stay the same. She is a 10, however she is very annoying. I would like to tell her I'm not interested but she hasn't asked me out. Just flirting. But I think her feelings may be getting hurt and she has self esteem issues already. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: advice on rejecting a woman

    How old are you?

    There is nothing wrong with having female friends. I prefer them, personally. Female friends will generally provide many benefits men cannot offer (even homosexual ones).

    Married women flirt with men. It's how people of opposite genders interact. Don't look into it if you don't wnat ot move things forward.

    Just man up and tell her to stop doing something if it is bothering you.

    A woman who doesn't have self-esteem issues is called a corpse.

    Tell her what, if anything you want from her. Be prepared for her to be confused when you want things to stay "friendly", but don't want female friends. It confuses me.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: advice on rejecting a woman

    I just don't want to have sex with her. Period. I want to remain friends. I like her as a friend. She is a very 'easy' woman and I'm not into that kind of a woman. Mental block for me. We don't get ANY alone time and I don't want to tell her off in front of others. This is a casual friendship. I'm 31, 6'7" athletic build and dark skin. When I finally came out of my shell every woman I know seemed to be pursing me. I'm not used to this kind of attention. I recoiled very quick. I'm afraid I've opened a can of worms that is proving hard to close. Any advice on how to 'play it cool' would be helpful. They are really making it difficult. I know it's a problem most men would love to have but the learning curve is very unforgiving in this matter.

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    Default Re: advice on rejecting a woman

    Do you have a woman you are interested in? I wouldn't do anything. I would just be myself and have a good time. Find a woman you do like and pursue her. This friend will either help you with the new woman and stay your friend or will provide you an opportunity to set things straight (this may end your friendship).
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    Default Re: advice on rejecting a woman

    I'm interested in LOTS of women. lol Not looking for a relationship. This will end the friendship for sure. However I am interested in her friend/business partner. They own a bar that I go to. May have to leave both alone. Known them for years. I'll just play it cool. And they can deal with it. thanks


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