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    Default Close to getting her.. I think

    Help! I've known this lady for a while now, prior to a few weeks ago she was with a guy, but punted him; he was the original caveman type: shaggy biker dude. Anyway, we have chatted much over the past months and always manage to touch an arm, etc when we can. So, turns out we both like cars and I got an amazing offer for the use of a Bentley for a weekend and asked if she wanted to come to which she said yes, Sat would work. So, we've got that planned to come. I also bought her a dress b/c I was in Greece recently and when I came back I told her I thot of her and the dress but didn't buy it, and she said I should have. So, now she's about 1000 mi away visiting her dad and will be back for our weekend. Two questions: 1. do I do the email/txt message while she is gone or be cool until she returns? 2. how do I get from starting the day in the car to ending the day in bed? And truth be told I'd love for her to be my girlfriend too; she's hot, funny, a belly dancer and great to talk to...and has a body that is amazing!

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    Default Re: Close!...I think

    yo...i'm not quite a guru, but hope some others chime on this for you...as i hope some chime in on my upcoming vacation date.

    first you're picking her up in a bently...so you are the man.

    i think the dress is too much, since as i read it, it's NOT the one from greece? cothing is a pretty personal thing. i'd say when you pick her up you could do A (1) flower...something summery and fun...not a rose...or IF...a yellow or white one.

    since you're already in a bently...keep the rest of it cheap IMO. ice cream at a drive in type place is always a good go with a hot car or bike. show her you can have fun while not trying to be donald trump. financial practicality is something that women don't overlook in potential long term setups.

    and if you're going for the long term, make her chase YOU a little. unless it's 100% time to go home and fark, take her home a little early, be "busy" sunday/monday (ok to hint at that to her) and then hit her up early/mid next week?

    just some thoughts...please SLAY me where I'm wrong!!

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    Default Re: Close!...I think

    You bought a dress???? Duuuuuuhuuuuude, noooooooo. OMG, the cheesiness. It's like saying "I don't know if you like me for what I am, but here's a dress that will probably buy your affection for me. And I'll come in a Bentley for a weekend, so that it'll buy more of your affection for me"

    And flowers?????? Really????? For a belly dancer????? You're going to be very disappointed when she'll diss you in an instant.

    No chance at all, man. MAYBE, she'll be your friend. Nothing more.

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    Default Re: Close!...I think

    Dude the bentley and all is nice as women are often attracted to wealth and such but this is only bc they make the following assumption:

    Because he is rich or has a nice car or whatever so he must have high social worth


    so basically u have to prove to her that your alpha, have high social worth and in general be fun and are able to rly captivate her. This forum as well as tons of stuff in terms of how to do that so i suggest u take a read.

    If you can do these things she should totally be comfortable with some kino. Should she respond well u can slowly escalate, but seriously watch her body language as u do it. If u escalate her enough and she remains interested and comfortable with u, its possible you could get her into bed.

    Personally id text her bc my text game is quite good but dont come off looking needy. Instead, look up some text game advice here and rly get her sort of primed for your date. Make her interested and maybe push pull a little so to build tension for your date so that right from the get go, shes attracted to u

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    Default Re: Close!...I think

    I agree with what you say in the bold text. There's only one tiny problem. He has the bentley for the/a weekend. What i smell is that it's probably rented. Why in the world would you do such a thing? She'll see right through you. And you won't have the necessary amount of game to be ultra alpha in such short amount of time.

    You can run game, i can't say you can't. Only It's ridiculously hard to recover from the gargantually massive afc-ness he's put himself through.

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    Default Re: Close!...I think

    Ah its rented? Well then the car wont do anything bc instead of showing u have some wealth your just making her think...hes trying to impress me with a lot of physical stuff (which she knows is temporary) which is nice but he prolly doesnt have the social stuff that i need. And i mean maybe she'll really enjoy the car bc you said she loves cars but that coupled with all the other sh*t youve done with the dress and flowers makes 99 percent probable that she will think what i stated above. You've set this up badly if this is indeed the case. You can game your way out of it i suppose but youll meet resistance so maybe having that f close in your mind the whole time isnt the best idea.

    In summary, i totally agree with sitfab

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    Default Re: Close to getting her.. I think

    Just some additional info: the Bentley is basically a weekend gift to me, so not rented; she knows the circumstance of it coming to me and we're using it b/c neither of us would ordinarily have access to such a set of wheels. As for the dress....I would not have bought one, but for the fact when I was in Greece and mentioned it, she texted me later that evening and said (playfully) it would've been Ok if it did....maybe a bad move on my part (probably, actually), but we'll roll with it. Yeah, got the 'fun in the Bentley'' thing, as I already told her we're doing the McD drive thru for coffee...she did a LMAO on that...
    Any other comments/suggestions? And thanks guys....

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    Default Re: Close to getting her.. I think

    Just use what u've learned from here and other pua sources to show her your not that afc whose trying to win her heart through physical means. Be interesting and make her laugh so that she knows u have that social side of things in spades as well. Progress slowly and just carefully watch her body language as you escalate with her. If its positive then continue but if not just back off for a bit and try again bc u rly dont want her to feel uncomfortable with u.


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