I'm new to the forums here, but really enjoy reading most of the topics here. I have a goal of leaving the friend zone with this girl. Here is my plan as a member from the community here recommended it to me. It sounds pretty solid. He mentioned 1. leaving contact. 2.creating a jealousy plotline (being seen with other women (facebook ), and 3. reframing myself (reinventing myself for when I see her after a while).
I would really like some ideas on how to reinvent myself that would possibly appeal to this girl. She likes good men/positive men. For example she values firefighters and I would say she would def date one day, if they were around. She likes to watch smallville, which is basically a superman show. I think that may describe the type of girl she is, and possibly what type of guy she looks for. One of the biggest things she enjoys laughing at is made up scenarios that are related to real life. For example:
On the 4th of July, I hung out with her, and tried to help these kids with there car. After they refused kindly, I decided to turn my car around on a narrow road and leave. I said "Imagine if a car came around that corner and hit us, these kids would have there very own close up 4th of July!" She laughed soo hard, and rescenariod it in many other ways. Saying maybe the kids wouldnt even be around to testify because they be up in the hospital.
Now when I do see her again, after staying away for soo long, what will I do differently to avoid the friendzone? Also is there a surefire way to know the jealousy plotline will work?