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    Talking Help leaving the friendzone!!

    Hello everyone!

    I'm new to the forums here, but really enjoy reading most of the topics here. I have a goal of leaving the friend zone with this girl. Here is my plan as a member from the community here recommended it to me. It sounds pretty solid. He mentioned 1. leaving contact. 2.creating a jealousy plotline (being seen with other women (facebook ), and 3. reframing myself (reinventing myself for when I see her after a while).

    I would really like some ideas on how to reinvent myself that would possibly appeal to this girl. She likes good men/positive men. For example she values firefighters and I would say she would def date one day, if they were around. She likes to watch smallville, which is basically a superman show. I think that may describe the type of girl she is, and possibly what type of guy she looks for. One of the biggest things she enjoys laughing at is made up scenarios that are related to real life. For example:

    On the 4th of July, I hung out with her, and tried to help these kids with there car. After they refused kindly, I decided to turn my car around on a narrow road and leave. I said "Imagine if a car came around that corner and hit us, these kids would have there very own close up 4th of July!" She laughed soo hard, and rescenariod it in many other ways. Saying maybe the kids wouldnt even be around to testify because they be up in the hospital.

    Now when I do see her again, after staying away for soo long, what will I do differently to avoid the friendzone? Also is there a surefire way to know the jealousy plotline will work?

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    I have 91 views and 0 responses. - Thats just nice, guys, keep up the great work!

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    haha...

    i think you overanalyze her likes and dislikes too much .. the goal is to attract her, how? by being spontanous and being fun and outgoing..

    i feel your situation, you just have to freezeout for 2weeks, then text her and say it's been a while and you'd like to see her...

    what to do when u see her, maybe more kino and more joking and less personal and serious... this is not a job interview.. make her have a great time, crack a few original jokes and at the end, make t look like u want to kiss her, but don't.. teasing her and making her want things drives them crazy for you...

    last tip, if u feel the past has ruined ur chances.. dont bring up anything from the past.. start fresh! no reminiscing together of a movie u saw together etc...

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    Wow your advice was actually very good! I like it! I'm going to take it and obey it like the bible. One thing I have not mentioned though, is she just finished liking another guy, if anything, she may still have feelings for him, but he doesnt seem to like her. So I think the wait time, should be longer then 2 weeks, don't you think? If so, how much longer?

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    there's no recpe on freezeouts, it's at your own discretion.. like if you come back sooner, maybe make her forget about him if you got game. remember time is money, the time you is getting over him and you having been dissappeared, she may move on to someone completely new.

    I say 2 weeks is a good amount of time, what you should worry about is not your competition, but planning how to be the best you can be to beat anyone. You don't need to be a great looking guy, but you do need the charms, wittiness, confidence to outlast any guy in the field whose competing against you.

    Don't be shy, just go with your natural instinct, which is generally what wussies only "imagine" of doing ...

    cheers.

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    Thats a pretty good answer. Well the reason I don't know if 2 weeks is good, is she still keeps talking about this guy, even though they are not together or very close anymore and it has been 2 weeks. She doesnt even think about me, it seems like.

    She has a really hard time meeting new people. So I'm not worried about her being with someone else. She only met this guy through a mutal friend.
    Last edited by kevpua; 07-13-2011 at 10:43 AM.

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    well, every girl talks about guys and currently you haven't been her topic of choice, because you haven't been aorund or done anything to beat this guy out yet. I have been in this position OFTEN, and it takes me half an outting before i make her say .. "fark this guy.. not worth it" .. and one more date to prove myself....

    BUT, the key isn't boy bashing, it's DHV of yourself and showing her that you are independent and just naturally cool to hangout. Make her think NOT being with you and with any other guy is HER LOSS!!

    ex. recently,. this girl was hung over her ex-bf and I'm being a nice friend I took her out to dinner. I didn't pay, we split bill so it wasn't a date. We were talking, and I listened to her story, about what the guy has done and hasn't done and said a few funny things and offered honest advice and used it as that i'm a "funny and honest" guy. She called me a week later to set up a date, and I just said sure... she paid and told me I made her happy and that it takes a lot for her to like a guy ... indirectly how I'm different.. VICTORY!

    you can do the same.. more tips.. just continue asking here.

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    Your advice is just soo good. Alright so I last saw her on 4th of July. Talked with her on the phone. How much longer should I wait? Also I would like a cool fun idea to do other then dinner, because I have pretty much taken this girl everywhere, walks around lakes, the movies, magic mountain, knotts etc. She likes trying new things, so thats a good thing.

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    it is hilarious you asked me what fun things to do ... i was talking to these girls that swim at my outdoor pool .. yes be jealous, i have hot MILFs and single girls coming in bikinis to tan and stuff... back to the story, i was talking to these girls about first dates and what bores them and what not....

    The list i gathered other than boring movie dinner was...
    -mini golf
    - pool and drinks
    - swimming pool
    - walks aorund town where there's access to a garden and a close by shopping mall
    - rock climbing
    - amusement park

    most of these = cost minimal and simple, us guys think too complex...

    how do I start these conversations with my clients? I simply just ask, how the weather? hows the water temperature.. how old are you?? and flirty flirty then i proceed for numbers... I have started 10 days this summer and have averaged 6-7 numbers a day, saw 3 on dates already.

    How much longer should you wait, my question is what are you waiting for? she is not going to come running into your house naked asking you to get cheeky cheeky... call her up ASAP and say "I went to New Jersey for a wedding and some girls proposed to you... unfortunate that shallow girls rush into weddings to fast! I hope you don't wanna get married yet" .. (she'll probably say .. no) then say "GREAT! let's do _______ , when you free?.." the idea is to be random funny exciting... all about confidence.

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    Default Re: Help leaving the friendzone!!

    I understand your frustration. The "expert" zone really doesn't have that many experts. It's either that or your thread being like a lot of others (they've probably already answered).

    This is a pickup forum. Going after a girl you already know, who has a set of ideas based on set experience with you isn't really game. I say aim for someone else.


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