I number closed this HB8.5 at the supermarket (she was a cashier) yesterday. I was quite happy with myself as we only had about 2 minutes to talk, which usually in the past has meant there was no where near enough time to build up attraction. Just as I was about to leave, I said “you know, it would be good to continue this conversation, you should give me your number”. (This is becoming a tried and tested line for me lol!). She was taken aback and blushing slightly when I said that and didn’t say anything for a couple of seconds. As she didn’t say anything I then said “if you want” to which she said paused and said “yes”.
This leads me to 2 questions:
When faced with that pause (like I was) after asking for her number, I’m sure there was something better for me to say than simply “if you want”? Something cocky & funny possibly, such as “you don’t want this to be one of the regrets in your life by not taking the opportunity” with a smile on my face as I say it. What would you say?
When number closing or asking a girl out for a date, would you recommend using an assumptive confident/cocky funny approach as opposed to the “would you like to/can I have your number etc”?