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    Laws0n is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Nice guy found a HB8 that is tired of jerks but doesnt want to mess it up.....

    So I actually used my niceness to my advantage, I met this girl only a couple days ago and shes been hitting me up, really hot, nice rack. Probly what you guys describe an HB8 haha.

    She started texting me complaining about this guy that was over there being annoing "Do you want to hangout without him sometime?" "Yes Definently! " I texted her some innuendos like "im a very passionate person when it comes to some things" "how exactly do you show your passion? " "Its better for you to see for yourself than me tell you"

    I hungout with her last night but her guy friend was over, she made it clear that it was only her friend a bunch of times and she said "sorry we cant be alone, I need to drop him off at home and dont want to ditch him, soon I promise" She dressed up nice compared to the time I saw her last and I asked her "is that what you wore to work?" "nope blahblahblah" "well you look nice" "awwww thanks" just telling her she looks good and maybe she will dress up more .

    I hit her up today and she didnt reply till late tonight "hey hon sorry I didnt answer I was busy with my moms birthday, Im tired right now but off at 4, hit me up after that and we can do something" So I hope shes alone this time and Ill definently make a move on her.

    Last night she walked me out and I gave her a big hug she said "I had alot of fun hanging out with you" "me too, I might just like you, your pretty tight" or something lame like that and I saw her blush and get that look in her eyes. I could have given her a little peck or something but wanted to wait until we were alone then go for the kill.

    If shes alone tomorrow night Im going to start touching her, cuddle with her then go in for a kiss and see if shes down to have fun, it seems like she is. I already touch her on the hands, legs, back, that kinda stuff so its not like its going to be weird, I made sure to do that so she was comfortable with everything.

    I just want to know how to not lose her, it seems she really likes me being nice, shes had past bfs that sound crazy, I also heard she could be a little crazy too but want to see for myself. Maybe not be so eager texting her, Im going to wait till 8 when Im off work and then hit her up "hey whats up" "nothing what about you?" "not alot, doing anything?" "Nope, come over Im alone" "Ill take a shower then be over"

    I dont know any "tips or tricks" but just want to be sure I dont lose this one from a mistake I want, shes way better looking than the average girl I date, I know my friends will be drooling over her and try to pick her up hahaha. I just want to keep her as mine, atleast hook up a couple of times and see what shes really like.

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    Default Re: Nice guy found a HB8 that is tired of jerks but doesnt want to mess it up.....

    sorry to bear the bad news, your nice guy and it's probably why this is a rare opportunity.
    she sees you a a nice guy and wants to know you better, but not date you. The conversations are a little dull, nothing interesting and she'll lose interest real fast, if she has at all. I feel, she needs a shoulder to lean on and with someone new, so she's landed on you.

    I feel, she told you things that she'd probably tell any other guy, and there's not a lot of flirting, I think it's all wishful thinking for now.. despite the fact I hope you DO get this girl..

    my advice is try being a little more carfree, more jokes, more kino, and slow down with the hookup thoughts, you're not a natural just yet.

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    Default Re: Nice guy found a HB8 that is tired of jerks but doesnt want to mess it up.....

    Okay, this girl is CRAZY, everyone has told me shes crazy. She hit me up "hey sorry I didnt hit you up yesterday, had alot of errands, wanna do something tonight" "hit me up at 8" and nothing, I heard she does alot of drugs, basically a crazy girl. So I dont know if I even want to get myself into that, I wont text her for a while and see what happens, but I wont care too much about it.

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    Default Re: Nice guy found a HB8 that is tired of jerks but doesnt want to mess it up.....

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    sorry to bear the bad news, your nice guy and it's probably why this is a rare opportunity.
    she sees you a a nice guy and wants to know you better, but not date you. The conversations are a little dull, nothing interesting and she'll lose interest real fast, if she has at all. I feel, she needs a shoulder to lean on and with someone new, so she's landed on you.

    I feel, she told you things that she'd probably tell any other guy, and there's not a lot of flirting, I think it's all wishful thinking for now.. despite the fact I hope you DO get this girl..

    my advice is try being a little more carfree, more jokes, more kino, and slow down with the hookup thoughts, you're not a natural just yet.

    I definitely agree with this assessment. She is the kind of girl who talks about her problems, because you will listen. I avoid any girl who brings up "another guy." I simply say, listen they are the problem I am the solution so let's forget about them. Some girls ALWAYS continuously bring up "other" men, be it an ex, ex fling, crazy stalker, etc. This is THEIR game, not the game we play. Let them run with that stupid game. It never works. It actually turns me off from a girl. This girl I hooked up with the other week texted me last night saying this...
    Her: "Omg, i seriously have the worst life right now.." (first off, I farking despise when people tell me life sucks for x y and z. You are alive and life doesn't always have to suck...anyways)
    Me: "uh.. why?"
    Her: "the concert I am going to tomorrow, my ex is sitting 3 rows behind me, FML"
    Me: "okay, not sure why that sucks, but I don't talk about exes."
    Her: "well, me and him had a tough break up."
    Me: "break ups don't tend to be great... but anyways, good luck with the concert. not sure what to tell you."

    I personally DO NOT like when girls do it because I know it's a ploy to get me thinking about her with some other guy. I do not care for it, nor do I have the patience, and, I have 3 other girls that are texting me at that time that I do not need to waste my time texting about an ex, or crazy guy.

    Call her out on it. Just be like, "yeah this dude is a loser, so let's talk about me instead."
    Play a little hard to get, not so forward and open with being the nice guy.. But I am not sure if it might or might not be too late.

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    Default Re: Nice guy found a HB8 that is tired of jerks but doesnt want to mess it up.....

    So she just texted me after a couple days of not hitting her up. Heres how it goes......

    "hey hon whats up?"

    Not alot you?

    "not much, Im sorry about the past 2 days I have been sick/feverish. I think I ate something bad! How have you been?"

    Been going good, sucks you have been sick, I just figured you didnt want to hangout.

    "oh hon I do wanna hangout! Im sorry I let u think that, we should def still do something, I havent even been able to work :/. Im free any day, but tonight Im hanging out with Taylor (her best friend) its his birthday (trust me their JUST friends she has told me this a million times)"

    Its all good, so your still down for me taking you out?

    "Yeah your def still taking me out somewhere "

    Haha okay, are you expecting me to dress up, open the car door for you, that kinda thing or just kick it? Thats not really me

    "Well I dont mind either way so its up to you"

    Okay, Ill think of something, your gonna have a really good time so look forward to it!

    "coolio "


    So I told her its a date, she already knew that but I was being clear about it. Shes had a REALLY hard life, so I think it just comes natural for her to complain about shit, I dont think she sees me in the friend zone or else she wouldnt have been so excited about it. But I could be wrong I dunno.

    Makes me wonder, I heard from alot of people shes crazy, it doesnt seem like there are any other guys interested in her, or maybe there are but she just hasnt told me about them. But for me thats kinda a red flag.

    Well anyways shes damn hot, if things dont work out I wouldnt be disappointed hooking up with her from time to time, FBs are always nice to have .

    Ill keep you guys posted, I probly will wait a few days then ask her when she wants to go out just to not sound so eager. Thanks for the comments.

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    Default Re: Nice guy found a HB8 that is tired of jerks but doesnt want to mess it up.....

    So what happened was her mom was in the hospital, she texted me a few days ago "hey Im SO sorry you have waited so long, I am very excited and we can definently go out soon, I have to watch after my mom this week and Ill be really busy and I want to have the whole day free to go out with you, you are so sweet and patient waiting like this, again I feel horrible"

    She texted me tonight at 9pm "Hey you! Im free Sunday afternoon and night, just not too late" "Sweet, your all mine on Sunday. What do you want to do" "Well if its nice I would like to do something outside, then maybe go out to dinner, what about you?" "Wow a girl with an opinion, I like that! That sounds good, we might be able to do that, Tigers or City quick pick!!" (I was buying her a puzzle bc she said she likes to do puzzles at home, I wanted to get her one to know I was paying attention and it would give me an excuse to come in too "Too late! I found something better!" "Well I like the city, waterfronts, Im sure what you got was great " She doesnt know its a puzzle, I just said a surprise so maybe Ill take her to the waterfront after dinner, its a chill place to kiss privately, I think thats what she was trying to get to also, its kinda weird to just mention waterfronts hahah. "okay Ill be at your house in the afternoon, we will do something outside, then go to dinner later then we can do whatever you want" "Okay sounds great!!"


    SOOOOO I was thinking, I havent texted her alot but since its been a couple of weeks I would hate for this to land in the "friends zone." I was thinking that when I go to pick her up, Ill go inside, show her the puzzle, then hold her hand, touch her hair, basically just go in for the kiss right away rather than spending the whole night with her and then kissing her just get it overwith so its not awkward. She keeps saying how excited she is, I doubt she will pull back if I try to kiss her, as long as its done right. Do you think thats a good idea? Then after say like "I have been wanting to do that for a while" She laughs "You have too! "

    She was making innuendos the first night I met her, so I dont think thats TOO out of line, then once she gets her first kiss from me I dont think it will be so awkward, she will know where I stand, and I can go in for the kiss again, and also if kissing is out of the way it will make it so I can come in and play around rather than just a goodnight kiss at the doorstep.

    It makes sence to me, I wont try to force it but I think it will also set the tone, if I dont do it I think at first it will be like "friends" hanging out, since its at a public place and stuff. I am planning on holding her hand, putting my arm around her, just like putting my hand out and seeing if she meets me half way.

    I know she will dress all nice, probly change into a dress for dinner. So she will try to impress me, I want to treat her to a night out but I dont want it to be a traditional boring "I dont kiss on the first date, blahblahblah what about your job, how about them yankees" kinda date haha. I told her that I am a very passionate person and she asked how I show my passion (she meant passionate sexually I think haha).

    So anyways long story short I need to not be shy, have confidence in what I do and who I am, and she will follow. She knows nothing about me, and I find that great that I can start fresh and be whoever I want to be. I also want to make up for the time that she has been tied up, if its the same as when we first met then she will probly get bored. Im the guy so I have to set the tone, I think showing her my passion earlier than later is the best bet, and its also what I want to do.

    So if anyone read through all this replies and advice would be REALLY REALLY helpful, she has a crush on me Im pretty sure, and I want to get to know her better, very hot, very sweet. I just want to do everything right and not screw it up.


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