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    Default I met a super cute girl in class, now what to do next?

    Met this gorgeous chick in one of my summer classes about a 9.5 but she thinks she's about a 7 used the old you really cute and had to meet you as an opener, did some kino. In the process of getting the digits she dropped the old BF bomb which I brushed off with I just met you and your already telling me about your problems. Which resulted in a laugh and her giving up the digits and facebooking me.

    We were really hitting it off common interests and definitely vibing each other, I texted her a bit but it doesn't seem like it's really her thing (she takes like over 4 hours to respond and stopped texting me back)? I'm just wondering if its alright to call her and ask her out to lunch/dinner without her getting weird about it. Any advice is appreciated on how to close this chick.

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    Default Re: what to do next?

    She is probably with her bf when she doesn't text you man. Also, he prob. found and doesn't want her talking to you. Just my guess. That is good, it shows he is insecure, and jealous. 2 things girls hate, which is prob. why she laughed at your comment about him being a "problem."

    I would ask her to hang out with a group of people so she doesn't feel awkward. That will get you some face time which can really help. It would be best if you guys do some drinking to seeing as she will be more open if she has been drinking and prob. will be more inclined to flirt with you.

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    Default Re: what to do next?

    I have to agree to the previous post. Hang out in a group. I had a buddy who is a definite chump when it comes to girls. He is just awkward as it is and i so badly want to help him out but it all really depends on the individuals own desire to want to be better.

    Anyways, he wanted to hang out with this girl, and I knew from the way he was talking was that she kind of was hesitant about it because he is himself real weird. Anyway, I told him to just make it a group thing. That way, it gets rid of the whole "personal, one on one" environment and makes it more a group social gathering.

    Same thing can go for you. You said you met her in class. If it's a small class, suggest a happy hour or something with people in the class. Then get some alone time once you complete that.

    Think of it like this, if she gave you her digits and facebook even though she has a bf, then he clearly isn't satisfying whatever needs she desires, be it sexual, physical, emotional, or supportive. He probably is a jealous freak and he has no confidence because he is dating a 9.5 as you said.

    You can do ittttt!!!!

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    Default Re: what to do next?

    So she actually texted me back a day later, said she was busy with classes all day. Eventually I called her first time I the machine didn't feel like leaving a message so called back a few days later. I kept it simple hey, etc. etc. just wanted to chat give me a call. Short simple and to the point.

    Haven't heard back from her since then and my instinct is to just drop it and move on to other chicks. Any advice from the pro's out there?

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    Default Re: what to do next?

    Quote Originally Posted by makimaki13 View Post
    So she actually texted me back a day later, said she was busy with classes all day. Eventually I called her first time I the machine didn't feel like leaving a message so called back a few days later. I kept it simple hey, etc. etc. just wanted to chat give me a call. Short simple and to the point.

    Haven't heard back from her since then and my instinct is to just drop it and move on to other chicks. Any advice from the pro's out there?
    I would do one of two things, depending on how bad I want to talk with the girl.

    1) Neg her a bit in a text. Make her desire your acceptance. Joke with her, but end the conversation on your terms. I ALWAYs do this when I am texting a girl... "Hey listen, nice chatting but I am heading out, ttyl" - I even say hey I am going to my friends I will talk later. This leaves it on your terms. It means that YOU are in control of the conversation. YOU are the one ending it, not her. Don't even give them a chance to end it. If it's 11PM and you are texting, say, "I am off to bed. Lots to do tomorrow. Night."
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    2) On to the next one... As I always say, girls are like busses, miss one next 15 minutes one's coming.


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