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    bullethead is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how to ask a girl out via facebook

    I have known this girl since high school and I seen her walk down my street for the first time in seven years. She is back in town to do her third year of med school. I always liked her and we almost hooked up in high school but became friends that lost touch ever since we went to college. Today I spoke to her in person and she seemed somewhat interested in me. I want to ask her out and the only way I can contact her is via facebook. Can any of you guys give me advice on how I can ask her out without getting her freaked out and would most likely say yes. Should I post it on her wall should I private message her. FYI I have very limited time because I will start my first year of med school on Aug 10th.

    thanks gentlemen

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    private message her....

    theres no way to guarantee a yes.. but if you make it sound funny and original it increases your chances... here's a sample:

    Hey (girls name), its funny how I just saw you walking down my street last week like how you used to. Well, I guess in the end, we landed in the same path to become doctors... maybe we're even meant to be together too! I joke, don't get exbited just yet, but since it's been so long, I want to spend some time with you before school resumes again, so pick a day this week, and I'll surprise you with a location for dinner and we'll call it a date - first year med student

    cheers

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    @studmuffin52 god damn I should have read your post earlier. This is the message I sent her last night
    "It was nice seeing you today. We should hang out sometime and catch up, and also I have sooo many questions to ask you about med school. Good luck with clinicals!"
    it's midday still no response :/. i don't know why this girl makes me feel this way!

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    nerdy response.. but she's a nerd who knows.. good luck...

    next time, don't tell her you got so much questions for her haha.. it turned out to appear like a friendly encounter...

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    Dude. I just got a date through FB last week. I met a girl at an event. She friended me and this is what I said.

    " Hey it was good to meet you the other night. Its too bad we didn't get to talk more, but as you saw I was occupied. We should get together soon."

    Short, simple, to the point and confident. Notice I basically implied we were going to get together, but left her to her own thoughts as to why. I made sure I didn't get stuck in the Friend Zone right out of the gate.

    We then went out to the beach and ate dinner Sat. night and I made sure I left early and abruptly in order to make sure I left her wanting more.

    Now we are going to be hanging out Fri. again this week with a group of my friends.

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    no response from her... mine and her loss :/

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    yessss! so happy! i got a response:
    "It was good seeing you also! I have to apologize for the late response I got busy with family weddings and things. You can ask me all the questions you want and I will try my best to answer them. I will give you all the vids/books I have that you will need, just bring your hardrive.And it would be nice to catch up with you too!"

    kind of nerdy and I really don't want to mess this up. how should i respond? I want to set up a date, but don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Funny I have been reading all this pua stuff but when it come to something like this i am clueless. Any advice would help

    thanks guys!

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    her response = pure friendship.. I think this one you will have to be be patient and let time unfold for further development, so for now, so date .. just innocent flirting and catchup ...

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    Should I just reply
    "it would be good to catchup with you. I am in DC right now but when I get back home next wed we'll figure out a good place to hang out. I'm leaving next month, so it would be great to get your advice."

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    Default Re: how to ask a girl out via facebook

    that's going into too much detail with her schedule... i certainly don't care, neither does she...

    something like.. "cool, here's my number 555-666-7777. text me soon."


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