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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    If she blows you off, I personally wouldn't give it another try. But that's my own personal way.
    IF she is able to come, then nothing to worry about, she was just being considerate telling you she might not be able to make it.

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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    ok well it turned out i was preoccupied entire day but she never gave me call back (i never gave her a call because i wasnt sure when i would be free)... I guess I will try to call her some other time to see if she's interested...

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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    I would text her up, act non chalant and don't bring up the movie date. If she doesn't seem connected through the texts, my advice would be to just move on to the next one.

    As they say... girls are like busses... miss one, next 15 minutes one's coming

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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    so it seems i will try to call her tomorrow to see what she says... currently there's 2 of us maybe a 3rd friend but he think it might be awkward... so if it is 2 of us then how should i approach her in a dinner/movie/drink situation?
    like" are you free saturday? wanna go for dinner then check out a movie?" new movies are friends with benefits , captain america but she might still like harry potter
    Last edited by lioil; 07-20-2011 at 09:04 PM.

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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    Quote Originally Posted by lioil View Post
    so it seems i will try to call her tomorrow to see what she says... currently there's 2 of us maybe a 3rd friend but he think it might be awkward... so if it is 2 of us then how should i approach her in a dinner/movie/drink situation?
    like" are you free saturday? wanna go for dinner then check out a movie?" new movies are friends with benefits , captain america but she might still like harry potter
    Here is my personal way I hang out with girls. If I haven't really hung out with the girl much, such as one on one for more than like 10 minutes at a time, and I really don't know her or had enough time to build much rapport, I stay away from going to the movies. It is impossible to sit there and talk and build a connection in a movie. Regardless if you do go for drinks after, you still have that 2 hour window in where none of you are really talking.

    Another thing I avoid is taking a girl to dinner. A lot of girls are HIGHLY conscience when it comes to a man sitting there while she eats. I have gone out with a number of girls who will order just a salad, or chicken fingers, because it is easy to eat. Only to have them eat 1/4 of the dinner. It's a waste of money. It also means you are spending an X amount of money on her for no real reason.

    Going out for drinks is easy. You have time to socialize with eachother. Even though you will spend a certain amount of money, here is the perfect chance to work some things out. You can see how she interacts with you, you can talk freely, you can play pool/billiards or darts. Those are perfect ways to get some Kino in. The alcohol can help loosen her up (and I am not saying this in a creepy way). You even could see if she offers to buy a drink (which is a definite plus).

    For instance, I met a girl online. Her and I have been wanting to hang out. My text game with her has been so on point she already is saying she wants me to kiss her and hug her while making out with me. That's great and all, but now I have to meet her in person. So, instead of saying, "hey want to grab a dinner and watch a movie?", I said, let's go meet up, play pool, and grab a few drinks. Regardless if I am guaranteed to make out with her, I still don't want to invest this much money into something that may not even work out past that night. I know it sounds cocky or like I am full of myself, but I can't tell you how many times I have spent money on a girl to sit back and be like, "why the heck did I even do that". Be cautious. You may be wanting to impress her to get her hooked, but remember she should be doing the same to you. If she isn't, it isn't worth it.

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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    well that was fun... called her and she said she's busy all weekend and she even stuttered a little heh. Guess that's a no go...

    There's another girl i am interested in... she is a neighbor and last time i went into her apartment she was living with a guy (2br/2bath). should i read into that or just ask her to go out and see what she says?

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    Default Re: Going out with classmate - advice?

    dude some advice- movies are horrible first dates! Girls fear movies when u ask them out to one for the first time.
    Best first date= some type of adventure i.e. canoeing, biking in the city, rock climbing. the point is make sure it is something fun and a little bit scary. Female's neurological response would be to try to seek protection from the alpha male (you). If you demonstrate that you know what u are doing without fear she would be all over you.


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