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    Default Just starting out and I am quite unsure

    Hey guys, this is my first post here. I am posting here because I found this forum through google and well there's pretty much been this girl I've been really interested in for whatsoever reason, which I am not quite so sure about myself but this is probably been my first approach on a girl I like since my ex asked me out. I'm at my last year of high school and well the school year is almost over for me and I'm just not sure how to have a proper conversation with her and I'm not sure if she is interested in me.
    Well basically this girl is in one of my classes and well I never took attention to me but recently I have been noticing her more often and I don't want to say I like her or I have a crush due to the fact that I barely know her but for the past two months I have walked up to her in my study periods and sat next to her about 5 times and initiated a conversation with her for about 3 minutes each time and 50 minutes of silence. I am not quite sure about the IOI's and such because I am only just starting out reading these details on google and well some possible IOI's I may have noticed includes: she is always smiling hen I'm talking to her and when I see her in the hallway at times, I have overheard one of her friends talking about me with her about my english oral which I did in class(this is one of her friends outside my english class well I'm not sure if this is because she was interested in me because I did a pretty damn good oral in class and well her friend was talking about this when I was pretty near them), there are also times here she is holds eye contact with me when I see her in the hallway, she points her leg at me when she crosses her leg(only when I sit next to her) and play with her hair a lot hen I sit next to her, caught her staring at me when I walked in the class once and she looked away the moment I noticed, she looks at me a lot when I'm talking to other people(when I'm sitting next to her and the conversation has nothing to do with her whatsoever) and lastly she only initiates conversations with me when she over hears me talking about english with one of my friends who is also her friend.
    Well, I'm not sure if these are all actually IOI's but I'm not quite confident(I always think about what to say before and I get a lot in my mind before I approach her and kind of freak out in my conversations and I end up saying one of 10 things I want to say) as I've only started reading these things up and well I just understood what my friend meant when he called me an AFC.

    So my question might be stupid but...
    Does she like me? I'm not sure if these are really IOI's or maybe she's directing them at someone else or she just has a habbit of touching her hair a lot(as there was a time when I had a test and I sat on the opposite side of the room facing her and I'm not sure if she noticed me or not but she kept touching her hair)
    What should I do to keep my confidence to be able to keep our conversations flowing?
    Last edited by Tetsu; 07-23-2011 at 06:58 PM.

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    Default Re: Just starting out and I am quite unsure

    The IoIs look promising but you can't just go on that! You're still going to need some game. Sear h through some more threads. Learn some new bits to use. Look up 'the cube', its a psychological bit that is just awesome. Tell her you've been reading some amazing books recently and you learnt about 'the cube' . It's phonomenal and has always given me good results.
    Good luck bro,

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    Default Re: Just starting out and I am quite unsure

    The best thing for me to do in a situation like this is to try to game other women. I'll start talking to four or five women in circulation and suddenly the 'one' doesn't have any power over me anymore. In your setting, an added benefit will be her noticing you talking to other women, which is great social proof. Use some of the routines as Asian Watts described, there's nothing wrong with canned material. One that I like is Style's Ring Routine which you can google easily enough. For conversation practice, Gambler (aka Richard la Ruina) describes in natural game a simple process:
    1. question
    2. statement or insight (preferably about her); this is the longest part of your speech, about 70 %
    3. Deeper question probing into her motivation, character, and/or emotions.
    The reason he came up with this is because most men will ask question after question, most of them unrelated, until the girl is exhausted from the interrogation.
    Holding eye contact without words is the definition of sexual tension. Experiment with slowing down your speech a little and using hand gestures as well.

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    Default Re: Just starting out and I am quite unsure

    First and foremost welcome to the world of pickup and all that it has to offer, In the months since I've learned it existed it has done wonders for me socially and emotionally. I highly recommend you go read The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artist By Neil Strauss, and The Mystery Method by Mystery. This will give you a really vast understanding of what everyone is talking about, and the general techniques PUA's use.

    Next, you gotta adjust how you see yourself. This thread is excellent (http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post32252).. it's by a guy called Virgil on being the alpha male. I read it every morning before I go out for the day.

    Lastly, and in reference to your question. Approach. Talk to her. (reading the books first will improve your chances of success drastically) but with the IOI's you got, and the fact that she's a highschool girl and likely her preference in men is a very fluid concept, if you walk up and run a direct opener on her, she'll probably dig it. If not, screw it. My point is if you're asking yourself "should I approach?" the answer is YES. Run canned material until you get your bearings and branch out from there. The worst that can happen is she says "no".. and that puts you right where you are now. Good Luck buddy, and message me if you need any help. Cheers.

    - Mojo


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