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    RonnyC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Asked a girl out, got rejected, but.......

    Hey there,

    I don't want to put too many posts in a split second. Since my desperation really took over my head, I couldn't help but keeping asking in this forum.

    I keep my story short. Met girl last week in a club, we both got on quite well to each other because I used a quite few techniques I learnt in this forum to impress or seduce her. At the end of that night, I got her name and added her as a friend on facebook (of course I did ask her about staying in touch on facebook). Since then I asked her out for a drink and it was supposed to be today but she replied me that she couldn't make it because of a podium dance job (think she may be a stripper...) but would be in the club where we met each other again the day after.

    A rejection again!!! In message she laughed at my jokes, which I think I still have a chance with her; however, when I give myself a second thought, she didn't really asked me to go to the club tomorrow. What she said to me that she would be in that club again because of her routine or some shit like that. What do you reckon? Should I go to that club to see her again? If she turned a cold shoulder to me, how would I make myself less embarrassed in the club? Btw, I don't have her phone number. All the corresponding is on facebook. Although she put her number on facebook, I don't think it's appropriate to send her a txt without asking her number in person. However it's so tempting to take the number off facebook.

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    Default Re: Asked a girl out, got rejected, but.......

    What kind of club were you at when you met this girl---strip club, dance club, etc...? Also, what were the circumstances of your meeting? Did you just approach her? Was she working there? Was she part of a group? These details are important to determine who you're dealing with and where you are.

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    RonnyC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Asked a girl out, got rejected, but.......

    Yeah dude, thanks for your reply. The club I went is a dance club not a strip club at all. She does not work in that club. That night she was with her friends. I approached her and hit on quite well. Of course, it wasn't that smooth at the begining. I did make a mistake. There was a moment I tried to pull her because I was too desperate but she turned her head away (I've learnt my mistake and I know do more kino before move on for the kill). At that time I thought I messed my chance up, but it turned out I didn't. She didn't go away and kept talking to me til the club closed. We both walked down the street together and I dropped her at the bus stop. That was what happened on that night.

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    Default Re: Asked a girl out, got rejected, but.......

    Right I personally think if you go to the club on the day she said you'd be jumping through her hoop, and lowering your frame, which you deffinitely don't want to do, plus you'd look desperate. So I'd say dont go to the club, but tell her to meet you somewhere else the following week, because youre busy throughout that week. Dont make it too far into the future though because then she might forget you. This way you social proof yourself by saying you have stuff to do, dont jump through her hoop which strengthens your frame and technically passes her shit test, and you also show that you're in charge.

    Also as a side note, when asking for her number, don't ASK. After telling her to meet you next week, and only if she replies, say give me your number so I can call you when I'm at the club.


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