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    Default Salsa girl outside of dancing

    Howdy guys, first post here so I'm pretty green...

    I go salsa dancing. Love it. I've been doing it about six months by now and I'm pretty much a natural - girls are impressed when we dance.

    I met a Spanish girl at a salsa club a couple of weeks back. She doesn't speak good English. Enough to get by, but far from fluent. Luckily I speak Spanish, slightly better than her English but not fluent either.

    We danced, talked, flirted, I took her number. On the dance floor it's great - lots of touching and a sexier dance than I have with anyone else.

    But off the dance floor and I'm back to being a doofus again. It's not the same, the rules are different. We went for a drink last night and I ballsed it up. First thing was I let her sit opposite me rather than by my side - there was only one table left but that didn't go well. Then we just talked, mostly in Spanish. Lots of laughing (a lot of it at my accent!). She was visibly tired after a long day at work and after a few hours I took her home in the car. A kiss on each cheek was all I got.

    But we were never in a 'date' kind of frame.

    This isn't the first time, either. I've been out with other dancers and after a few hours hit the friend zone. Booo.

    How can I change that?

    There's a sexual energy when I see her out dancing, hand holding, hugs... None of that was there outside of the salsa-zone. I want it back! How do I get it back!?

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    Default Re: Salsa girl outside of dancing

    Dude..... you know how you practiced Salsa dancing for 6 months.... I can't see what your doing obviously..... But you need to amp the sexual energy built on the dance floor. Being able to do what you do is something most guys would kill for. It's an opener, and a DHV all in one when you ask a chick to dance like that with you. You must continue the flow, and always, always continue the touching off the floor. Make it your mission this week to approach 100 random women, throughout the week, IDC where they are.... supermarket, a hotdog stand, just walking down the street wherever. Open with some thing casual, since it's day game, something like....

    YOU:Hey there, I can't stay and chat long, I'm off to meet some friends for a (some random gathering) but, I've got something on my mind and I really need I woman's opinion.

    Then hit ehr with your opener and see, how long you can keep the conversation going, about random things. Just keep it going, your goal here isn't to pick this girl up, It's to get your communication flowing better.

    After doing this 100 times in the day, It'll be so natural to do after a sexually charged dance. This is your mission.

    Side note, notice her body language and yours, during the conversation, and see what kind've touching you can do and her reactions to it. Always even if the conversation felt like it went terrible.... and some will, ask for the phone number. worst case senerio she says no, or I don't ave a phone... aww. but your not even after the phone number bro, your after getting a foundation built. Don't let me down here, 100 women at least, and you'll be 100 X's closer to where you wanna be then reading the best tips and tricks for months on end.


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