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    hatetolove is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need opinions with an HB9 who has a boyfriend

    thanks guys. im new to all of this so bare with me.

    first off. Am i tripping for even considering trying to talk to this girl since she has a boyfriend? I met her last night at a bar, and she is honestly one of the most gorgeous girls i have seen. She seemed wayyy interested in me at the bar for i caught her eyeing me several times. So i walked up to her and started talking to her. She was SOO flirty and i felt like she was actually spitting game on me lol. Eventually she told me to add her on facebook and gave me her full name. lol i would of preffered a number but i was fine with that. Anyways i add her and then find out she has a damn boyfriend. She definitely wasnt acting like that at the bar.

    so that really threw me off, and i just didnt know what to say from there. i personally never wanted to deal with that but she is just so damn beautiful. anyways i wasnt thinking straight this morning and sent her a message saying

    "last night was fun. what are you doing this weekend?"

    i know... totally lame. she was probably super freaked out bc i made it seem like i know her well and actually hung out for a long time when it was really for only ten minutes. anyways, she didnt write back. should i leave it alone? if i did want to say anything, how do i recover from that? i dont want to look needy or weird.

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    Default Re: need opinions with an HB9 who has a boyfriend

    so she flirted and you found out she had a boyfriend and now you're life is ending .. period. not really...

    she acted a certain way for a few reasons, maybe her bf did something bad to her and she's out to seek revenge? or she's drunk? or she's just really playful? she DOES like you?.. so what's the problem, none, she never told you, maybe her status is a "sh1t test" or a fake relationship....

    Next time you write a girl, remind her of somehting from the previous night and ask her something ... ex. Last night, when that guy tripped over the rug checking you out was pretty lame. I'm in need of a new shirt, want to come and give me some input?"....

    don't message her again, just wait it out, in 2 weeks, write her another message and if she doesn't respond, you know she was probably out of it.

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    hatetolove is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need opinions with an HB9 who has a boyfriend

    yeah its not the end of the world... i dont know what i was thinking sending a lame message like that to her though.

    "last night was fun, what are you doing this weekend?''

    i was hung over this morning and was kind of nervous bc of how hot this chick was lol. the message was as if i had known her for a long time or something. i bet if i thought that one through a bit better she would have responded

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    Default Re: need opinions with an HB9 who has a boyfriend

    well.. laugh and learn ... it's all in the process, only if you knew the lame sh1t I said in my life... now I'm quick and witty.

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    Default Re: need opinions with an HB9 who has a boyfriend

    and that will only change from going out there and getting it done right?

    when did you start to notice that change in yourself?

    i just got out of a five year relationship and literally lost all of my game due to the whole one itis thing. Also, i find myself missing my ex which gets me thinking of her rather than other girls. Really f's up my inner game. thats another thing id like advice on.

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    Default Re: need opinions with an HB9 who has a boyfriend

    i tell all my friends and people I wingman for...

    having a girlfriend is one thing, but the fun never stops, it's good to be comitted, but hey, we all need to let loose,. know our limits and stil have tons of fun.

    talking to girls is not a crime, small talk and getting numbers is not cheating, heck flirting is under "playful" encounters, just don't make out or fark anyone when you ae in a relationship!

    I had a girlfriend, and I was out and about, we trust each other, we'd actually make it fun by saing, let's try to get a few numbers, we laugh and toss them out, it's all about having fun... this way you don't suffer from losing your game and you are still upping your skills... 'd probably stop doing this when I'm engaged or what not...

    When did I notice a change? when i always get screwed over, or ignored, or made fun of.. it was ugly in high school,now 5 years later, I'm getting the last laugh, girls are coming back to me now. it's all a mental game and it's a fun one too.. go out and enjoy the ride, we all fail at some point, but do you have the courage to reach perfection?


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